whats so bad about being young and pregnant

hi im roxanne im 14 !
iv been with my boyfriend for 2 and half years now he is 16!
i live with my mum and dad ! and for some reason ppl on ere seem to judge me coz of my age ! ALL i really want to say is if your still with the babys dad and have lots of love and support and you can look after your self aswell as a baby then it doesnt matter about the age ! my son has got every thing he needs and if he needs anything me my boyfriend or my mum+dad will get it but like i said i dont get it when ppl judge me coz of my age  

because u write your life story like that

because 14 year olds shouldn't be having sex.......and if they are shouldn't be doing it without protection

i don't know. People stare at me all the time, because I look like I am 16 and I get horrible snares, and gawks. i want to scream. It sickens me how judgemental ppl are. :T

Quoting piratetink824:“ because 14 year olds shouldn't be having sex.......and if they are shouldn't be doing it without protection”

well said

  Oh boy.

Quoting *Babi-Roxi*:“ hi im roxanne im 14 ! iv been with my boyfriend for 2 and half years now he is 16! i live with my ... [snip!] ... he needs anything me my boyfriend or my mum+dad will get it but like i said i dont get it when ppl judge me coz of my age  ”

1. Fourteen year old girls are not mentally or physically mature.
2. You still haven't figured out that love doesn't buy food or pay rent.
3. You still have a lot to learn about life.
4. You now will be tied down for the rest of your life and it has barely begun.

However I'm not judging you-its your life. Good luck and best wishes.

*sits and watches*

because your a baby yourself.
and like you said...you can't support your own baby. shouldn't be having sex if you can't get a job...

Quoting Ski&Meg&Ash:“ 1. Fourteen year old girls are not mentally or physically mature. 2. You still haven't figured out ... [snip!] ... for the rest of your life and it has barely begun. However I'm not judging you-its your life. Good luck and best wishes.”

so true    

Quoting Heather_G:“ *sits and watches*”

me too 

Quoting Ski&Meg&Ash:“ 1. Fourteen year old girls are not mentally or physically mature. 2. You still haven't figured out ... [snip!] ... for the rest of your life and it has barely begun. However I'm not judging you-its your life. Good luck and best wishes.”

I just want to add that at 14 you also are not legally allowed to work, and therefore do not have the means to support a baby on your own. BUT, I am not here to judge either!

I just wanted to say I love the name Jayden James!

ugh this makes me sick to my stomach...

Because everyone has an opinion. You may not like it, but that's how it is. You may think that you are old enough, but others don't.
I don't think that 14 is old enough. Just my opinion. When someone is 14, they should be freshmen in high school. Still a kid. Sorry, but that's just too young.
Welcome to life sweetie.

I don't want to judge you, however, in response to your question....
Children should not be raising children!!!