re: About Andrea, 4ever changed [+1]

Quoting PoorLittleSadSack:" I knew there was a reason I couldn't stand that bitch."

There has always just been something about her, I guess.

She always kindof put me off.

Quoting MissToni(BBM):" this is SO sad.. i was saying in another thread how i had talked to her a cpl times in random threads ... [snip!] ... times in random threads and she once joked about "pre beating" her kids before going to a restaurant so they'd behave...  "

yep... there's honesty in jest...   she probably wasn't joking...

Quoting Jasify:" I don't think that's the case for her, as much as I'd like to believe it. The child needed skin grafts and had bruising all over her body. "

Well, my kids have bruising all over their bodies as well. They are a new walker who's decided to take up climbing, a 4 yr old and 8 yr old whose hobbies practicing for their auditions for the WWF and Wipeout and sky diving and mountain climbing lmao

Quoting Neighborhood Pill Pusher:" yep... there's honesty in jest...   she probably wasn't joking... "

  

Quoting Jasify:"   I mean, we all come on here and vent, sometimes joking around. I know I've said that I was going ... [snip!] ... to put my son in the oven if he didn't stop screaming.   But since we all do it... we all assume it's just venting. "

I say smurf that i wouldn't dream of actually doing to my kids. Most people do, you never actually think someone is serious when they say that kind of thing.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jasify:</b>" It kept me up last night, honestly, just thinking about how long this was going on, while some of us were talking to her, and none of us had any clue. "</blockquote>



This is true. She didn't really talk about her personal life.

6 kids in 24 years?!?! How old is her oldest?

Quoting MamaCass{Julia&Owen}EBFT:" The same child was also hospitalized earlier this year for nutritional issues."

Oh wow, so sad  

Quoting Jasify:"   I mean, we all come on here and vent, sometimes joking around. I know I've said that I was going ... [snip!] ... to put my son in the oven if he didn't stop screaming.   But since we all do it... we all assume it's just venting. "

I think that's a fairly normal part of parenting. I've joked about buying a cage for my kids, lol. I would NEVER seriously do it of course. But hey, kids can make us crazy. Unfortunately there are some women that can't control their anger though. With having some many kids, and back to back pregnancies though, it makes me wonder if there wasn't some kind of PPD/PPP going on.

Quoting CallMeMoses:" Well, my kids have bruising all over their bodies as well. They are a new walker who's decided to take ... [snip!] ... old and 8 yr old whose hobbies practicing for their auditions for the WWF and Wipeout and sky diving and mountain climbing lmao"

I appreciate you trying to find the light, honestly.

But I think this time it's the real deal.

Quoting MamaCass{Julia&Owen}EBFT:" I think that's a fairly normal part of parenting. I've joked about buying a cage for my kids, lol. I ... [snip!] ... having some many kids, and back to back pregnancies though, it makes me wonder if there wasn't some kind of PPD/PPP going on."

I don't know. She "target abused" her 3 year old, apparently her other kids weren't malnourished or abused at all.

Quoting Devil Duckie:" 6 kids in 24 years?!?! How old is her oldest? "

   that's what I was tryna figure out... damn... that's a lot which probably added to the stress and if she didn't have a lot of support...which could have lead to resentment and the abuse... *not defending her or anything AT ALL*

did she only abuse this child or the others as well?

Quoting Jasify:" I appreciate you trying to find the light, honestly. But I think this time it's the real deal. "

It's all so sad  

Quoting MamaCass{Julia&Owen}EBFT:" I think that's a fairly normal part of parenting. I've joked about buying a cage for my kids, lol. I ... [snip!] ... having some many kids, and back to back pregnancies though, it makes me wonder if there wasn't some kind of PPD/PPP going on."

I have no doubt she has some kind of mental issue, anyone who hurts a child like that must have some kind of mental issue.

Quoting Neighborhood Pill Pusher:"    that's what I was tryna figure out... damn... that's a lot which probably added to the stress ... [snip!] ... to resentment and the abuse... *not defending her or anything AT ALL* did she only abuse this child or the others as well? "

Just the one