17 pregnant by a guy who is married 21 yrs old and 2 kids a

I'm 17 years old and I have decided to keep the baby no matter what! When I first met my boyfriend he told me he had a big downfall and it was he was divorced. Hes 21 and 2 kids (1 yr old and 2yr old. ) he told me he had been divorced almost 7 months. come to find out HES NOT DIVORCED AND HES ONLY BEEN SEPERATED 4 MONTHS! There was a ton of drama with his wife and daughter who i was watching because he told me she was abused and neglected so i wanted to help. (before i was preg) we've only been dating 3 months and im 8 weeks pregnant now, he isnt very mature he doesnt have a good job and honestly most of the time i dont want to be around him and i get very pissy/irritated with him.. now i dont know if thats just the pregnancy messing with me or not. he can be rly great but he is super clingy and constantly txting, msging, calling... sometimes i love having him around but most the time i dont want to be with him and i feel stuck because im pregnant and i know i should have thought about all of this but smurf happens and now idk what to do...help? any advice?

Oh wow. Why at 17 would you want to be with a divorced man with two kids?

Be more careful about who knocks you up.
And you're never stuck.
If you don't want to be with him, don't be. Baby or no baby.

get a job, get on assistance, move out, take care of your kid.

Why were you having sex with a 21 year old?

your parents must be proud

Whoops.  

I would have stayed away from him.

You sure he's not still with his wife?

Quoting HotMom21ERF:" get a job, get on assistance, move out, take care of your kid."

Agreed! Nothing is impossible!!

Why would you choose to be with a man that already had two kids when you're so young??

And you're not stuck with him. You can co-parent without being in a relationship with him.

Why do you believe that he is even separated from his wife? he has lied to you before

Quoting Mama♥Sweetpea:" Why were you having sex with a 21 year old? your parents must be proud"

It's not that big of an age difference.

Good luck, OP.

sounds like you're in for an exciting/stressful time.. =/ ..goodluck

Quoting Squeaky McGee:" It's not that big of an age difference. Good luck, OP."

It is when she is underage

<blockquote><b>Quoting Squeaky McGee:</b>" It's not that big of an age difference. Good luck, OP."</blockquote>




You're right its not

Quoting Love*TTC*21:" It is when she is underage"

I don't know where she lives, but maybe the age of consent is 16 or 17?