Confused &" Scared

Okay I went to the doctors today and they told me i was measuring 9wks4days but im so terrified because i dont know whether the dude i messed around with sept. 30th or the dude from oct. 4th is my babys father . Could someone give me some type of guidence or help on who it possibly may be................. signed...... a WORRIED mother

Sounds to me like you are going to need a paternity test when the baby is born....

i would think they are too close to each other to be able to figure it out without a paternity test. sperm can survive inside you for about 3-5 days.

those dates are really close. you need a test to make sure.

Okay but is it bad to let the one im still currently with Oct.4th to think its his baby ?

Quoting Kierra070112:" Okay but is it bad to let the one im still currently with Oct.4th to think its his baby ?"

we all have different morals. i personally would not lead a guy on to think its his and only his. but that is your choice. if you are wrong and it is the other guys than you just wrecked his life. so if i were you i would be honest with him. good luck!

Thank You !!! ill Try &' Take Your Advice ..... Just Goinq To Be Hard

Quoting Kierra070112:" Thank You !!! ill Try &' Take Your Advice ..... Just Goinq To Be Hard "

no problem, i wish you the best.