You know you peolpe are freakin wacked. I used to come on this site for advise. I as a single mom do need other moms to talk to. I can't even comfortably post anything on here without it resulting back to my babys father. Its what my babys father did, not me! It is not my fault for what he did. Especially when I didnt even have a clue about it. How would you feel if you caught the child of your father molesting your child? I bet you would feel great if people stated blaming it on you, huh? I support my daughter 100% by myself. I always have even when BD was in the picture. He has not seen her since the day it has happend. I'm trying to make it day by day and move on with my life. Telling me I should be able to have children is ridiculous. Yo have critisized me more than him. Now thats truly smurfed up. Most of my post on here have been about me doing everything for my child and him not even caring. Yet Im the bad guy in this situation. Makes perfect sense! Do you think its easy going throught this? No, its not at all. All Ive been asking for is the mental support that I need to have the ability to move forward with my life and have a happy family/life.