I feel so guilty!

Okay well today i was discharged from the hospital and well i couldn't bring my daughter home with me, everyone please help me deal with this. I feel very bad because i think that its my fault that my little girl was born at 28 weeks. I love my little girl so much and i really want her home but man i know she has to stay in the nicu so she can get better but i feel weird cause i mean i know i went to the hospital pregnant i know i gave birth and i know she is fine but man i don't get to bring her home. everyone please pray for my Gabriella. anyone have any advice as to how i can stop worring so much i know that won't go away but i need to be strong for my Gabby! please pray for her please i beg you everyone.

my sister had her baby at twenty four weeks and her baby had to stay in the hospital for six months. The time flew by. Don't worry she will be home before you know it. Just think of how blessed you are! Good luck and lots of prayers going your way.

Quoting I am having a little GIRL:“ Okay well today i was discharged from the hospital and well i couldn't bring my daughter home with me, ... [snip!] ... worring so much i know that won't go away but i need to be strong for my Gabby! please pray for her please i beg you everyone.”

Why do you feel that its your fault she was early?

You and your daughter are definitely in my prayers. but out of curiosity, why do you blame yourself? everything has a reason though. I'm sure they're taking good care of her up there. They want to send her home just as much as you want to be there. Just try to be strong and pray about about it.

Quoting I am having a little GIRL:“ Okay well today i was discharged from the hospital and well i couldn't bring my daughter home with me, ... [snip!] ... worring so much i know that won't go away but i need to be strong for my Gabby! please pray for her please i beg you everyone.”

I think this is probably a common feeling for someone in your position. Try to take care of yourself while you are at home (eating/sleeping/recovering) and know she is in great hands with the nurses and physicians.They will be monitoring her while you are notthere. Do youhave a way to see her everyday??? I pray your baby gets to come home soon!!!

i didnt know that babies could be that early. Why do you think it was your fault! Just be strong, i will keep her in my prayers!

Quoting Sky5708:“ i didnt know that babies could be that early. Why do you think it was your fault! Just be strong, i will keep her in my prayers!”

What do you mean you didn't think babies could be that early? Are you talking about delivering?? surviving??

Quoting I am having a little GIRL:“ Okay well today i was discharged from the hospital and well i couldn't bring my daughter home with me, ... [snip!] ... worring so much i know that won't go away but i need to be strong for my Gabby! please pray for her please i beg you everyone.”

Honey, I know how you feel. It was SO hard for me to leave Ryan so many times.. so now that he's finally home, I HATE having to leave him. I cry on the way to work every day because I'm leaving him again after I had to leave him so many times. I felt like it was my fault forever, and I had to have SO many people try to convince me that it wasn't my fault that my BP was so high.. And you're gonna worry for a long time.. every time the phone rang my heart would drop and I'd think the worst, and you'll probably feel that way for a while but once you finally get that okay that they can come home, you'll be on cloud 9. I know you've talked to me before, but if you need me some more.. feel free to PM me again.

Quoting Britt ♥ Ryans Mom:“ Honey, I know how you feel. It was SO hard for me to leave Ryan so many times.. so now that he's finally ... [snip!] ... come home, you'll be on cloud 9. I know you've talked to me before, but if you need me some more.. feel free to PM me again.”

hi! how is baby Ryan doing??? I showed my mom the other day the pics of him that I looked at when I was really sad and how he made me smile. I don't know if you remember me but just thought I would see how you two are doing

Quoting *!* Brittany *!*:“ hi! how is baby Ryan doing??? I showed my mom the other day the pics of him that I looked at when I ... [snip!] ... I was really sad and how he made me smile. I don't know if you remember me but just thought I would see how you two are doing”

He's doing really well, a little sick and fussy lately but other than that perfectly healthy   I'm glad he can make you smile, just like he makes me smile too!! He's definately a miracle, just like I'm sure the OP's daughter is.

Okay well i think this is my fault because i feel that i didn't take good enough care of myself. I am very happy that i at least have a way to go see her everyday. I know she will be okay i know god will boy let anything happen to her. i really appreciate everyone for keeping my daughter in your prayers! i just really want my daughter home but i know she has to be thee to get better. PLEASE PLEASE EVERYONE KEEP PRAYING FOR HER TO GET BETTER SOON SO SHE CAN COME HOME AND BE WITH MOMMY AND DADDY!

Quoting Britt ♥ Ryans Mom:“ He's doing really well, a little sick and fussy lately but other than that perfectly healthy   I'm ... [snip!] ... he can make you smile, just like he makes me smile too!! He's definately a miracle, just like I'm sure the OP's daughter is.”

yea I was reading your previous posts... he can't be perfect all the time huh?? Well I am gonna head off to bed!! good luck with mr. fussy pants  

OP: i will pray for you!!!!

Quoting I am having a little GIRL:“ Okay well i think this is my fault because i feel that i didn't take good enough care of myself. I am ... [snip!] ... to get better. PLEASE PLEASE EVERYONE KEEP PRAYING FOR HER TO GET BETTER SOON SO SHE CAN COME HOME AND BE WITH MOMMY AND DADDY!”

Like I said, I felt guilty for a long time.. and unfortunately the guilt doesn't get better. I felt like I could've taken better care of myself but there wasn't much I could do to stop what God already had in His plan for me and Ryan.. and He has you and your daughter a plan as well. It's all happened the way that it has for a reason.

Quoting *!* Brittany *!*:“ yea I was reading your previous posts... he can't be perfect all the time huh?? Well I am gonna head off to bed!! good luck with mr. fussy pants   OP: i will pray for you!!!!”

Thank you for putting my daughter in your prayers! i really know she will be okay! She is my darling angel and i know GOD will keep her safe and out of harms way.

Quoting I am having a little GIRL:“ Thank you for putting my daughter in your prayers! i really know she will be okay! She is my darling angel and i know GOD will keep her safe and out of harms way.”

You are welcome... good night