Help me!

So baby is a week old today   and she is a great baby...She is not the problem.My situation with my hubby is killing me   Our relationship got so damaged thru the pregnancy I just realized that he doesnt want to be with me...He said that he was just sticking around waiting for something to go wrong.What does that mean?That is some b.s.I cant believe he waited to tell this now.I feel sooo crappy and this is hurting me so much I dont know what to do.....

Best thing... talk to him. Try to figure out what he meant by waiting for something to go wrong. Ask him why? Ask him what has happened to make him feel how he does. Ask him how he feels about you and the relationship.

Communication is key. You may not like the responses you get, so be prepared to hear some hurtful things. Remember though, if he's telling you the truth then that's a good thing. At least he isn't lieing... it won't make it any easier, but that is something positive.

Hmmm..that one is definitely a toughy. I'm really sorry he's putting you through that  Sounds like a good question for Dr. Laura. I love that woman.

He told you he was sticking around waiting for something to go wrong? I would say that statement is something wrong! My hubby and I have had our share of the rocky paths too, its not easy to be married and try and handle a new baby especially for first time parents. James and I had a really really hard first year of marriage, we lived with my parents for about a year after we were married, and that was almost the nail in the coffin. Alex was a new born and we slept in the basement. There was no privacy for us, we had to resort to driving around in the car with alex at night to be able to talk becuase my mom and grandma would listen to what we were talking about even though we were a married couple with a baby, trying to feel the water. We made it though, thank God, through a TON of talking and sometimes crying and yelling. We knew our situation wasn't good for either of us, but we knew we loved each other more than anything and love alex and wanted what was best for him. We just kept truckin and it did work out for the best.

I hope and pray that things work out for you as well. Try talking to him, even if the conversation takes you down some roads that aren't plesant, it might be what needs to happen. Good luck babe! *Hugs*