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Rape and pregnancy

Abort
 
50% (54 votes)
Adoption
 
15% (16 votes)
Keep the baby
 
36% (39 votes)

re: Rape and pregnancy

posted 16th Oct '11
I would get a abortion. I don't think I'd be able to carry that baby.
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posted 16th Oct '11
Keep it   Not the childs fault it's father is a low life piece of smurf.
quotesmurfs?
I have 1 child & live in Tauranga, New Zealand
posted 17th Oct '11
i would abort if i knew FOR SURE that was how i got pregnant
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I have 1 child & live in Appleton, Wisconsin
posted 19th Oct '11
Quoting Malakai's mommy:" i would abort if i knew FOR SURE that was how i got pregnant"

This is also something to think about. If you had a partner you wouldn't really know if it was the rapists or your partners would you?
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I have 1 child & live in Tauranga, New Zealand
posted 19th Oct '11
Quoting NoahJamesGH:" This is also something to think about. If you had a partner you wouldn't really know if it was the rapists or your partners would you?"
exactly- unless you and your partner like, weren't having sex lol
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I have 1 child & live in Appleton, Wisconsin
posted 20th Oct '11
Quoting Malakai's mommy:" exactly- unless you and your partner like, weren't having sex lol"

Haha and as we can tell on baby gaga, telling anyone to not have sex is out of the question lol so clearly people are having sex. And like what if you had been trying for a baby then got raped, and became pregnant...you wouldnt know if the baby was your partners until after the birth? Then I think its a little too late to abort.

This would be a good D&D I reckon.
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I have 1 child & live in Tauranga, New Zealand
posted 20th Oct '11
Quoting NoahJamesGH:" Haha and as we can tell on baby gaga, telling anyone to not have sex is out of the question lol so clearly ... [snip!] ... was your partners until after the birth? Then I think its a little too late to abort. This would be a good D&D I reckon."
LOL! Yeah you're right about that one!  
I wonder what people would do then, if they were TTC and got raped and the baby turned out to be the rapist's- would they give it up for adoption or not? My guess would be it depends how the SO/DH felt. If that happened to me I think my SO would still want me to keep it and he would raise it as his own
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I have 1 child & live in Appleton, Wisconsin
posted 20th Oct '11
I was raped and got pregnant when I was 14, I had planned to keep that baby but I had a miscarrage. If I was raped and got pregnant now, I would abort without a second thought.
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I live in United Kingdom
posted 20th Oct '11
Quoting NoahJamesGH:" Keep it   Not the childs fault it's father is a low life piece of smurf."
   
quotesmurfs?
I have 1 child & live in Zimbabwe
posted 20th Oct '11
There's no unsure option? You can't expect everyone to know what they'd do. I know I don't. I really could not click either as for me it's one of those things you don't always know unless you're faced with it. That's just me though!
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I have 2 kids & live in United Kingdom
posted 20th Oct '11
Quoting Nicole Przybylowicz:" I was raped by my brother and if I were to have gotten pregnant I would abort."


So sorry mama. I totally understand in that situation. x
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I have 2 kids & live in United Kingdom
posted 21st Oct '11
I was raped when I was 16 and I used to wish that I had gotten pregnant from the rape. It sounds weird but in my head at the time I kept thinking if I had become pregnant then at least I could say the rape happened for a reason... to bring this child into the world. I kept searching my brain wondering why it had happened to me and what the purpose of the rape was anf why it had to happen to me. I was 16 and couldn't get my head around what had happened. If it happened now I would say I would most probably have an abortion.
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I have 1 child & live in United Kingdom
posted 9th Nov
I just found out I am pregnant and this baby is a product of rape and even though it could end my relationship with my fiance I will be keeping my baby every life is created for a reason and after the lord took my first baby home at 16 I could never send a child back to him. There is some reason he gave me this baby and I will honor his dreams for my life
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I'm due July 14th, have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in New York
posted 9th Nov
adoption or keep it...Abortion is out of the question for me
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I have 4 kids & 2 angel babies & live in California
posted 9th Nov
<blockquote><b>Quoting Mom ♥:</b>" Title self explanatory What would you do?? I ask this because I know I would keep the baby because ... [snip!] ... keep the baby because its still MY baby.. This is NOT meant to cause drama.. but I want to know what other people would do."</blockquote>




I've been there and had an abortion. But if it were to happen again, I would keep it. I have no way to know if it was my husband's and I wouldn't abort again unless it were for medical reasons.
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I'm TTC since January '13, have 5 kids & live in Indiana
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