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Rape and pregnancy

Abort
 
50% (54 votes)
Adoption
 
15% (16 votes)
Keep the baby
 
36% (39 votes)

re: Rape and pregnancy

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posted 15th Oct '11
I'll be aborting any future pregnancies. Particularly if it was from rape.

Not only is that not fair to me, it's not fair to my husband who now has to raise some rapist's kid.

C.
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I have 2 kids & live in Saint Catharines, Ontario
posted 15th Oct '11
Quoting ITSABOY ♥:" Title self explanatory What would you do?? I ask this because I know I would keep the baby because ... [snip!] ... keep the baby because its still MY baby.. This is NOT meant to cause drama.. but I want to know what other people would do."
I couldnt abort for any reason but thats just me
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I have 1 child & live in Westbrook, Maine
posted 15th Oct '11
If I was raped and got pregnant, I would get an abortion. I would not be able to care properly for another child as well as my son, while dealing with the pain and trauma of the rape as well as my own personal issues. Abortion would be the answer for me.
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I have 1 child & live in Montreal,
posted 15th Oct '11
I was raped by my brother and if I were to have gotten pregnant I would abort.
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I have 1 child & live in South Carolina
posted 15th Oct '11
Abort that smurf.
quotesmurfs?
I'm due September 3rd, have 2 kids & live in South Carolina
posted 15th Oct '11
Abort. No way in hell am I dealing with a pregnancy after a rape.
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I have 1 child & live in Monterey, California
posted 15th Oct '11
I'm pretty much pro life in every case, but medically needed and rape.

So as much as id feel like smurf for aborting, id have to do it. There's a big difference in getting pregnant from sex with my husband then some smurf raping me and if I did decide to go through the pregnancy I would find an adopting loving family to take the child. Its not the fault of the child, they didn't ask to be put in that situation but I would not want a daily reminder of what happened. So id either abort or put the child up for adoption.
quotesmurfs?
I have 2 kids & live in Westfield, Massachusetts
posted 15th Oct '11
Quoting Atticus & Rhys's Mommy:" I'm pretty much pro life in every case, but medically needed and rape. So as much as id feel like smurf ... [snip!] ... in that situation but I would not want a daily reminder of what happened. So id either abort or put the child up for adoption."

Lol, how can you say you are "pretty much pro life" but would abort...? That doesn't make sense. Pro life means you're against abortion in every situation and want it to be illegal.
quotesmurfs?
I'm due September 3rd, have 2 kids & live in South Carolina
posted 15th Oct '11
Quoting Jasify:" Lol, how can you say you are "pretty much pro life" but would abort...? That doesn't make sense. Pro life means you're against abortion in every situation and want it to be illegal. "


Im pro life.. but I dont think it should be illegal because if it was.. then people would find a way to do it and maybe hurt themselves in the process.
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I'm due with triplets January 19th, have 13 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Connecticut
posted 15th Oct '11
<blockquote><b>Quoting Jasify:</b>" Lol, how can you say you are "pretty much pro life" but would abort...? That doesn't make sense. Pro life means you're against abortion in every situation and want it to be illegal. "</blockquoti



I only say "I'm pretty much prolife'" because I do believe its a life and unless medically needed or rape cases then I don't support abortion. So techinally I don't consider myself pro life, but then again I don't consider myself pro choice. Sure it may be hard for you to understand......I guess I'm on the side lines watching both and refusing to pick a side. So I don't believe in the choice unless its rape or medically needed.....its just how I see it.
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I have 2 kids & live in Westfield, Massachusetts
posted 15th Oct '11
Quoting ITSABOY ♥:" Im pro life.. but I dont think it should be illegal because if it was.. then people would find a way to do it and maybe hurt themselves in the process."

Then you're not pro life... you're only pro life if you want abortion to be illegal.
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I'm due September 3rd, have 2 kids & live in South Carolina
posted 15th Oct '11
I have been raped and if I had gotten pregnant I would have kept the baby. As traumatic as it was, its not the babies fault.
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I have 2 kids & live in Sonoma, California
posted 15th Oct '11
I dont think i would be mentally strong enough to keep it so i would abort as it was a traumatic and unwanted conception. I wouldnt be able to go through with adoption and always wonder about the child and the possibility that i would be faced to tell them why i didnt want them. No child deserves to hear that even if it is the truth.
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I have 2 kids & live in Australia
posted 15th Oct '11
Quoting Jasify:" Then you're not pro life... you're only pro life if you want abortion to be illegal. "


I do.. but I dont think it would be a good idea.
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I'm due with triplets January 19th, have 13 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Connecticut
posted 15th Oct '11
Quoting ITSABOY ♥:" I do.. but I dont think it would be a good idea. "

If you had the opportunity to vote on it, what would you choose?
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I'm due September 3rd, have 2 kids & live in South Carolina
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