re: My abortion experience at 23w6d

That was mean to be a comment wasn't it? I'm not being mean or anything!I thought that might touch Nicole. And yeah. Good luck with your baby, Nicole. I really meant no harm.

Wtf. You're a piece of work.

I'll take it as a compliment...-.-" anw I'm killing this acc it's a boring webPage....id rather be fbing! Yeah and try not to use vulgarities here...after all isnt it a support group?0.0

Ok then bye bye now.  

Quoting Sophia Marie's M0mmy:" b/c her getting pregnant was ovoiusly ur fault. didnt u know u dont need a penis anymore "

lol shes not starting drama shes just being a smart ass. lol shes trying to say that his mother blamed her and not him for the pregnancy. although it takes two. im sorry for all that you went through. ive never been through it but i know if you mother had been supportive and a different person you would have made a different decision. your situation was not one a baby should be in so i totally support it. 

;( Im sooo sorry...

Quoting kirsten anita:" lol shes not starting drama shes just being a smart ass. lol shes trying to say that his mother blamed ... [snip!] ... person you would have made a different decision. your situation was not one a baby should be in so i totally support it. "

yup sarcasm just with bad grammar lol

I went to go into get an Abortion but I didn't have any idea how far along I was, after the ultrasound they figured I was around 18.5 weeks, they told me I couldn't get a normal abortion I would have to fly up to Georgia to get it. They explained the 3 day process which you went through. After they told me the gestation and I saw the ultrasound picture of the baby, I couldn't do it. Like what people were saying to you. It's a BABY now. My mom said "No" too but I agreed; I would have the baby.

Now I look back and thank God that I was too far along. I don't know what I would do with out Kameron.

You are a very strong woman. I couldn't do what you did. And in no way am I trying to be a bitch or be rude. I just wanted to tell my story too.

Quoting nicolex:" Yes we are still together, engaged and expecting this new baby. I love him so much and he's been the one thing that's gotten me through. I am so lucky to have him, going on four and a half years."

That;s great! I'\m glad you didn't have to deal with losing him and your baby all at once...and the nerve of his mother! To pretend to be there for you and then to discuss a vacation without you in front of your face while you are going through the most traumatic moment of your life! I hope your relationship with her has improved and she has been supportive of this pregnancy....best of luck!.


....and just out of curiosity....did you literally have the abortion one day before it was illegal? I'm just asking out of sheer curiosity...i dont know how it works....I had one at 6 weeks, and that was tragic enough for me....you are so strong!

I can't imagine how hard that must have been to share that story, but thank you for sharing it with us. I can't imagine how hard that must have been, but you definitely have a lot of us to reach out to if ever need be. I wish you the best of luck with your baby girl.

Thanks for sharing your story. It made me actually think about the one I had over 23 years ago. I had buried it deep down inside. Never really allowed myself to think about it. The one thing I remember was asking God to forgive me and give me another chance to have children later. I have since been blessed with 4 beautiful children.

Quoting Treecy Lee:" That;s great! I'\m glad you didn't have to deal with losing him and your baby all at once...and the ... [snip!] ... of sheer curiosity...i dont know how it works....I had one at 6 weeks, and that was tragic enough for me....you are so strong!"

It's not illegal, you just can't really find a doctor who will do it after 24 weeks. Most won't even do it that far along.

You are Very brave.Best of luck with your bub  

i always thought i was extremely prochoice, until i found out i was pregnant before my son was even one.. abortion crossed my mind then, i couldnt personally do it, but reading this has really touched me. i cried, and i dont often cry about abortion stories. Im sorry that you went through that, it sounds horrible(im sure it was even worse than that...)Im sorry that you were in such a bad situation,i cant imagine having to make a choice like that. And while i cant honestly say that *i* beleive it was the right decision, i can say i see why you would make that decision.

i want to ask though...did your relationship with Charlie last?

Your story braught back a lot ov feelings of my own abortion. I had battled with manic depression for many years started after I had my 1st son. I got pregnant and was very happy and wanted my baby so much, then the darkness started to creep back into my head I went from wanting my baby to not. I cannot really wright into words wat manic depression is like only those who have had can really understand it. I guess its like a split personality happy one moment then feeling like u want to crawl into a hole and die the nxt. When Id have these episodes I carnt remember them its very hazy. I relise now that I shudv gone to the doctors and had my medication but u don't think rationally. I ended up having an abortion at 19weeks and a few days after I came out ov my haze an released wat I'd done. I was hysterical. How cud I do such a thing to a baby that I wanted. I turned to self harming to try releive the pain and finially went to my doctors for medication. I was that effected by the abortion that I tryd everything to get pregnant again which resulted into a miscarriage (maybe gods way of punishing me) but the miscarriage was nothing compared to wat the abortion made me feel. I since went on too have a 2nd beutiful baby boy and he is a stunner. 3years later I still cry about losing the baby I wanted because inn my eyes that's wat happened I lost a baby. Maybe if they didn't hand out abortions so easly they'd ov seen on my records that I suffered mental health issues and looked into it. But I carnt blame any1 but myself that's wat herts the most. . . . My advice to any1 who was thinking about having one wud be not too or make sure its defiantly wat you want.