so all i went ot the doctors today and the gestaional sac is in place still alil too early to see the lil embryo but my midwife says she sees somthing in there so she told me since she knows i'm going to be a wreack til i'm about 5 or 6 months then she scheduled ultrasound a week from today, and said we can def. do regular ones casue she doesn't want me to worry myself to death..so imagine my excitment!! and a ease of my anxiety...however i get to work and it's just all negativity excpet from my superviosr and boss, who said congrats right away! everyone else was like are you crazy you already have children..your stupid get your man fixed, get yourself fixed....and i'm so sensative i had to go and cry int he bathroom, it would be one thing if i was a type of women who didn't do anything with my life, but my children have done miracles for me. If i didn't have my first son young who knows where i would be..that pregnancy motivated me to become something and i'm still working to acheiveing soo much..not to mention i just lost a child in octber and the one thing i have been preaying for is a healthy pregnancy, so to hear all the negative responses it hurts! I'm the only one at my employment..in this particular site with children, and it's fustrating to be happy with that pregnancy glow and to have people i see on a daily basis constantly try to bring that down..should i express how i feel or just ignore it. My supervisior tried to say " she's happy leave her alone" but a coworker said she already has children how much more does she need? It's hard to be surrounded by negativity. Sorry had to rant a lil. 

People can be ignorant, maybe deep down some of them wish they were in your shoes. The only one who should care is the one raising the child, you and your husband! It is great news and just only share the news with the ones who are excited for you, next time when someone says something negative just change the subject quickly. sorry you have to go through that!

Awww Im sorry!! Tell them to STFU!!! They have NO business telling you to get "fixed"....ugh.....who are they to dictate how many children you can have.....sheesh some people 

Quoting Gorgeous ~N~ glowing:“ so all i went ot the doctors today and the gestaional sac is in place still alil too early to see the ... [snip!] ... said she already has children how much more does she need? It's hard to be surrounded by negativity. Sorry had to rant a lil. ”

They shouldn't be worried about the number of children you already have. If you want a large family that is your business not theirs. If they don't agree then they need to keep their mouths shut. If they continue to harass you about it, I would speak with your supervisor if I was you.

People at my husbands work have actually come up and slapped him and told him he's an awful guy for getting me pregnant again so quickly and that it was a horrible thing to do to his wife. I want to go down there and slap them and tell them it's none of their business and that I'm HAPPY.

Quoting jka:“ People at my husbands work have actually come up and slapped him and told him he's an awful guy for getting ... [snip!] ... thing to do to his wife. I want to go down there and slap them and tell them it's none of their business and that I'm HAPPY.”

Wow that should be harassment!

thanks ...it's just sucks when anyone gives you a negative response to the life you are carrying, i guess some people just don't know what they are missing...thanks for the support! at least i know one place i can go and "feel the love" 

I just don't understand why anyone would care about another person's choices espec. if they don't effect them..and it's sad that everyone thinks they have a right to say shit..sometimes it's better to keep things to themselves,,,i mean yea everyone has a right to option but here is a thing called manners.