re: =( dissapointed at everybody

Quoting TeRRay143:“ im sorry for your lost. Everything happens for a reason and maybe it just wasnt the right timing for you. i mean you are pretty young, so i am i, but try to finish high school first.”

I know, after everything happens, now i take my life more seriuos and i want to enjoy and live it, but the fact that my lil something had to pay, it just makes me mad, but, i know he'll forgive me one day, and god will put him/her on my way, to finally have it.

Quoting Gretchen Weiners:“ I'm sorry for your loss. Please take time to live your life before planning a pregnancy. You're 16.”

I know, but there was a momment in my life in which i just wanted to live, and i took it way too far, but thanks.

Quoting Morgan Dennis:“ Bringing a child into this world will not "fix" your problems... Why cant you get married or live together now- why did you need to be pregnant?”

That's exactly the question i just ask myself, but i guess i just didnt thought about that before...

I am sorry for your loss... That has to be devistating.

Like the others said, just relax about wanting to live fast. I commend you on your honesty because frankly on this site it takes balls to admit to trying to get pregnant at 16 but then again you may not know that because you haven't posted much at all.

All I have to say other than that is that at 16 your body is still growing. It stops at 17. I wish you the best of luck later in life w/ having a baby and I'm sure it will happen when the time is right.

Quoting crc ♥:“ Oh wow... i'm really sorry”

thanks...

Quoting 2cute4words:“ I am sorry for your loss... That has to be devistating. Like the others said, just relax about wanting ... [snip!] ... It stops at 17. I wish you the best of luck later in life w/ having a baby and I'm sure it will happen when the time is right.”

I know, i found out this site, and it makes me feel really safe, and knowing that im not the only one, that pass through this, but i really now take my life serious, and see that its not a game, and either are baby's...

Quoting Chary:“ I know, after everything happens, now i take my life more seriuos and i want to enjoy and live it, but ... [snip!] ... had to pay, it just makes me mad, but, i know he'll forgive me one day, and god will put him/her on my way, to finally have it.”

Don't be mad at yourself for trying, okay? Even though it wasn't the right thing for the moment and you are smart enough now to realize that. Going to the extent to feeling like you need forgiveness from God because this happened isn't right. That's like a married woman feeling having a miscarriage and feeling as if it is her fault for trying to get pregnant. There is nothing you could have done. Don't beat yourself up over it please.

I can also compare this to something like "If I hadn't gotten in that car and driven that way at that time of day that dog I hit would still be alive." You know what I mean? It's just what happened, you can't get mad at yourself for what happened, you can't control that.

Quoting 2cute4words:“ Don't be mad at yourself for trying, okay? Even though it wasn't the right thing for the moment and ... [snip!] ... alive." You know what I mean? It's just what happened, you can't get mad at yourself for what happened, you can't control that.”

yeah i know, sometimes im like, okay i couldnt help it, but other times i look at my self n im like, what have i done...but at the same time, at least i didnt kill my parents..which were about to explote..

Quoting Chary:“ yeah i know, sometimes im like, okay i couldnt help it, but other times i look at my self n im like, ... [snip!] ... at my self n im like, what have i done...but at the same time, at least i didnt kill my parents..which were about to explote..”

Yeah, I know what you mean. I've never expierienced that but I hope you start feeling better. How long ago was that? How far along were you? If you don't mind me asking. It's okay if you don't want to, I'm just curious. =\

Quoting 2cute4words:“ Yeah, I know what you mean. I've never expierienced that but I hope you start feeling better. How long ... [snip!] ... long ago was that? How far along were you? If you don't mind me asking. It's okay if you don't want to, I'm just curious. =\”

a week ago, and i was a week pregnant, just that, but the fact that im always going to be like, what would it been, i saved a picture of it, doctor says that my body couldnt take it, i was too young, but idk, it hurts that sometimes they dont care because they're like, it was just 1week, but gosh it was something....but, o well, idk what to do... 

Quoting Chary:“ a week ago, and i was a week pregnant, just that, but the fact that im always going to be like, what ... [snip!] ... sometimes they dont care because they're like, it was just 1week, but gosh it was something....but, o well, idk what to do... ”

Did you take a Pregnancy test? How did u know you were really pregnant?

I mean.... sometimes my periods are late or even skip for no reason....

Quoting Morgan Dennis:“ Did you take a Pregnancy test? How did u know you were really pregnant?”

two pregnancy tests, and blood test

Quoting Chary:“ a week ago, and i was a week pregnant, just that, but the fact that im always going to be like, what ... [snip!] ... sometimes they dont care because they're like, it was just 1week, but gosh it was something....but, o well, idk what to do... ”

I'm thinking perhaps that you were really 3 weeks because they count from the first day of your last period. There isn't a possible way to be 1 weeks pregnant because at 2 weeks you concieve. Did you doctor tell you you were 1 week pregnant or something?  

Quoting Morgan Dennis:“ I mean.... sometimes my periods are late or even skip for no reason....”

mine was late for a month, and the first test said negative, and my mom took me to the doctor, it first was negative but it cleared and then they did the blood test so they firured it out...