Quoting ~Veeam i being a bitch by not lettin him see the kids.. or do i have a good enough reason not to??
no, ur not bein a bitch-i understand where ur commin from..but look, when u had the kids, u have to seperate ur personal feelings and do whats best for them
my dad left and it still hurt...then afew years ago he tried to contact meeh, and my mom said no because he hadnt dont anything n the past...well then i blames her for the 1 time i could have met him..she took that away from meeh because of how she felt...and didnt care what i thought
in the long run it may effect the kids, cuz i still havent gotten over it, and i know im not the only one-im jus usin maseld as an example
jus for the kids..let him see the kids-jus dont conversate him... do like i do wit my baby dady "if i aint about the kids, shut up cuz we dont have anything to talk about until u man up"
honey, jus do it for the kids