re: babys dead beat dad..

wow i totally forgot about this post... and its no surprise that he is still exactly the same. my kids had only seen him about 4 times even less in the passed 5 years.. one of which was sadly when our son passed away. and even then hes useless wont help me with funeral expenses and all that... and this was last may and my daughter hasn't seen him since then, but its not a big deal any more she knows that I'm here and her daddy (step dad) is here for her always.. thank you all for helping me feel better and understand at the time that i wasn't in the wrong