Quoting AnnieH:" How is it going with the surrogacy?"
It is still up in the air helping my friend. My SO just started a working for a union a few months ago and needs 1000 hours before we get insurance for the 2 of us. So when I get insurance and get my cycles back to normal ( they are inconsistant from bfing) then we will see. I kno her and her hubby are having some issues right now, so I told her Id like to wait till things are stable. In the mean time I will probably pursue other Surrogacy options. I also have a friend who is friends with a couple who are looking for a traditional surrogate, but they are in West virginia so IDK how that would work : /. but When i first started this process with the agency as well, the lady said being a surrogate is a 'Hurry up and wait" sort of thing. It could take a whole year or longer from starting the process to actually being inseminated, or getting an embryo transfer or however we decide to do it..
on a side note, I was cramping and sort of (wet) down there but not really EWCM, and i took an OPK and it was obviously positive... so this is the first time ive ovulated since the last cycle i conceived Eli. Well, Im having a surge, maybe im not really actually ovulating yet, idk.. but its the first postive OPK ive had. Good thing we started using condoms! lol but it makes me happy to see my cycles are slowly getting closer to being my normal. I like being able to predict AF/