Quoting inevitabledisaster18:" I am 14 weeks. I don't know if it's my friend's or a one night stand. I don't know how to make a decision ... [snip!] ... knowing something so important like this? Please help? I mean how can I have a plan if I don't know who's it is? Please help?"
Yeah, either way, you can never completely count on the man to stick around. They can be funny like that. Also, you'd be surprised how supportive parents can be once the LO gets here. I didn't think I would be able to take care of my son either, when I was pregnant, but now he's 12yo, n we've come a long way! It's amazing how God steps in n takes care of things in ways you could never imagine. Either way, I don't know your entire situation, so if you know in your heart you couldn't do it, then you need to hurry up n make up your mind before it's too late. Or you could, of course consider adoption. Good luck and God bless!