re: I want an abortion but I don't? Help????

Quoting ma ♥:" Oh gosh   Idk where I got 12 weeks then... oops."

I see you're from California. It's 24 weeks there too, if I'm not mistaken.

weigh pro's and cons.. if its something you aren't 100% about I wouldn't go through with it (abortion) , if you think you can't financially support a child there is always adoption.. but the choice is yours  

Quoting (♥ my littles]™:" i wouldnt abort just because you dont know who the dad is. there is a lot of programs that can help you, as well as adoption may be an option."

that's not the only reason it's because if it were the other guy's baby I wouldn't have any support while with my friend I would have support of family my friend and would feel better off. Plus the other guys deceased so I can't get help from him. That;s why it's a big deal.

Quoting (♥ my littles]™:" Am I the only one that thinks thats terrible?  "

I think she meant wouldn't get one based off of guilt.

Quoting K[♥ E]+1:" I think she meant wouldn't get one based off of guilt."

   

Quoting (♥ my littles]™:" Am I the only one that thinks thats terrible?  "

Probably, why?

Quoting Boobylicious:" I see you're from California. It's 24 weeks there too, if I'm not mistaken."

Yikes! I really did not know that!

Quoting inevitabledisaster18:" that's not the only reason it's because if it were the other guy's baby I wouldn't have any support ... [snip!] ... my friend and would feel better off. Plus the other guys deceased so I can't get help from him. That;s why it's a big deal."

There are programs to help single mothers. And even if the one night stand that's deceased is the father, i'm sure his family would still want to know their sons child.
I don't know, it's not an easy decision.

Quoting inevitabledisaster18:" that's not the only reason it's because if it were the other guy's baby I wouldn't have any support ... [snip!] ... my friend and would feel better off. Plus the other guys deceased so I can't get help from him. That;s why it's a big deal."

Oh no, I'm sorry about your friend... Would his family help you in any way?

Quoting K[♥ E]+1:" There are programs to help single mothers. And even if the one night stand that's deceased is the father, ... [snip!] ... is the father, i'm sure his family would still want to know their sons child. I don't know, it's not an easy decision."

 

hate to say this but how far along are you? because I felt my baby move at 14 weeks so if you choose the abortion option you may want to decide before you feel him/her because that changed everything to me. But then again I felt my baby relatively 'early'

Quoting Cayden'sMommy  :" hate to say this but how far along are you? because I felt my baby move at 14 weeks so if you choose ... [snip!] ... want to decide before you feel him/her because that changed everything to me. But then again I felt my baby relatively 'early'"

she's 14 weeks......

Quoting HotMom21ERF:" she's 14 weeks......"

:/ sorry

Quoting inevitabledisaster18:" that's not the only reason it's because if it were the other guy's baby I wouldn't have any support ... [snip!] ... my friend and would feel better off. Plus the other guys deceased so I can't get help from him. That;s why it's a big deal."

well if its proven that he's the dad i believe you would get some kind of survivor benefits..

Quoting K[♥ E]+1:" I think she meant wouldn't get one based off of guilt."

oh i was gonna say ... thats terrible. but if she was saying that she WOULDNT get one based on not knowing who the dad was, thats different then.