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160 postsposted 21st Feb '08
Okay I'm not sure if this is the right place. but I'm going to put it here anyways. lol Well I just had my 3rd little girl and she is 6 weeks old and then I also have a 17 mo. old and a 3 year old{soon to be 4}...
Okay so anyways. I started back to work 3 weeks after the baby was born because well im not rich and we needed the money, and well me and my husband decided that we would switch off night on getting up with the baby, I get up with her 2 days in a row and then he does...Okay we both work full time, but what I'm so pissed off about is that on the nights he is supposed to get up with the baby I have to freaking WAKE HIM UP..he doesn't get up on his own and then I end up waking up and staying up while he feeds her. Whats the point of asking him to get up if I have to wake up, and when I wake up with her on my nights he doesn't have to wake up he gets to sleep through the night!! ERRR...Okay well also today he knew I had to work at 2 and that I needed my clothes for work washed, he washed his uniform and didn't wash mine. WTF. I always wash his clothes and he can't even wash mine.
Okay 3rd thing...the kids are sick and we dropped off the prescription, and i asked him this morning "did you pick up the kids medicine" he was like "NO"
WTF again..Do I have to stay on his ass about EVERYTHING...I'm so aggravated and I'm ready to freaking give up on everything...he doesn't help with the baby unless i say "Justin please get up and go get the baby so i can eat" or something along those lines...ERRRRRRRRR..
Sorry this was so long, and the bad thing is...THERE IS MORE..but I'm done for now. lol Thanks Ladies for listening/reading!!
quoteOkay so anyways. I started back to work 3 weeks after the baby was born because well im not rich and we needed the money, and well me and my husband decided that we would switch off night on getting up with the baby, I get up with her 2 days in a row and then he does...Okay we both work full time, but what I'm so pissed off about is that on the nights he is supposed to get up with the baby I have to freaking WAKE HIM UP..he doesn't get up on his own and then I end up waking up and staying up while he feeds her. Whats the point of asking him to get up if I have to wake up, and when I wake up with her on my nights he doesn't have to wake up he gets to sleep through the night!! ERRR...Okay well also today he knew I had to work at 2 and that I needed my clothes for work washed, he washed his uniform and didn't wash mine. WTF. I always wash his clothes and he can't even wash mine.
Okay 3rd thing...the kids are sick and we dropped off the prescription, and i asked him this morning "did you pick up the kids medicine" he was like "NO"
WTF again..Do I have to stay on his ass about EVERYTHING...I'm so aggravated and I'm ready to freaking give up on everything...he doesn't help with the baby unless i say "Justin please get up and go get the baby so i can eat" or something along those lines...ERRRRRRRRR..
Sorry this was so long, and the bad thing is...THERE IS MORE..but I'm done for now. lol Thanks Ladies for listening/reading!!
I have 3 kids & live in South Carolina
14947 postsposted 21st Feb '08
Quoting ILuvMyGirls86:“ Okay I'm not sure if this is the right place. but I'm going to put it here anyways. lol Well I just had ... [snip!] ... Sorry this was so long, and the bad thing is...THERE IS MORE..but I'm done for now. lol Thanks Ladies for listening/reading!! ”
Welcome to the world of men, honey.
I have 2 kids & live in Ennis, Texas
15895 postsposted 21st Feb '08
Quoting EmmaGrace:“ Welcome to the world of men, honey.”That is what I was thinking. It be nice if we didn't have to ride them like seabiscuit.
I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Florida
posted 21st Feb '08
Quoting Jjnicole330:“ That is what I was thinking. It be nice if we didn't have to ride them like seabiscuit.”
But the riding in one sense of the word makes up for a lot of it! At least in my case.
I have 2 kids & live in Ennis, Texas
15199 postsposted 21st Feb '08
not that this is a debate and discuss...but seriously....at least he does it when you ask him to.
some men..don't wake up...we have a prgram in our braINS AS MOMS TO WAKE UP WHEN BABY DOES..lol AND i DON'T THINK MEN HAVE IT. fRANKIE SLEEPS THRU EVERYTHING...BUT IF i NEED HiM TO TAKE CARE OF THE BABY i ASK HIM TO AND HE DOES. (sorry caps lock was hit...)
anyways, I'm just saying...it's prolly a man thing.
picking up the medicine is the same story...men just don't hink of stuff like that...frank always says to me...that if I want something..I have to TELL him since he can't read my mind.
quotesome men..don't wake up...we have a prgram in our braINS AS MOMS TO WAKE UP WHEN BABY DOES..lol AND i DON'T THINK MEN HAVE IT. fRANKIE SLEEPS THRU EVERYTHING...BUT IF i NEED HiM TO TAKE CARE OF THE BABY i ASK HIM TO AND HE DOES. (sorry caps lock was hit...)
anyways, I'm just saying...it's prolly a man thing.
picking up the medicine is the same story...men just don't hink of stuff like that...frank always says to me...that if I want something..I have to TELL him since he can't read my mind.
I have 14 kids & live in Maine
5269 postsposted 21st Feb '08
Quoting EmmaGrace:“ But the riding in one sense of the word makes up for a lot of it! At least in my case. ”
LOL
I have 3 kids & live in Utah
6182 postsposted 21st Feb '08
Thanks ladies. That is what i was afraid of lol..just part of being a man. hehe
Well take care and thanks for the replies I just had to freaking vent...
quoteWell take care and thanks for the replies I just had to freaking vent...
I have 3 kids & live in South Carolina
posted 21st Feb '08
Quoting apodacamaria(ODRFAB):“ hasnt this been posted in another thread?”
what do you mean? what's a thread. lol sorry
I have 3 kids & live in South Carolina
