sex cramps

my hubby and I have still been making love im almost 20 weeks and when we get done my whole uterus gets rock hard and cramps up on my right side, it only hurts on the right. has anyone else had this problem?

I have had some pains during sex on my left side of my abdomen. I think if it is unbearable you should stop. If there is no blood, then I don't think there is anything to worry about. Sometimes after orgasm, it tightens up your uterus, which is why it gets hard. I'm not sure about the pain though... I've cut back on sex cuz of the slight pain and lack of desire- plus right now, I'm sick with a cold- on a normal basis though i make sure to take care of daddy to be.

Ugh... My hubby is scared to have sex w/ me. =| This sucks...

32 weeks and he says wait til' the baby is born... REALLY?! He's going to be dieing at like 2 days PP.

its normal when you have sex that your tummy tightens.mine always did that when i was pregnant with my son. the doc told me it was normal and fine.

Even not pg your uterus will harden like that. You just are not aware of it because your uterus is so small with out a baby in it.

Quoting mommylenhart:“ my hubby and I have still been making love im almost 20 weeks and when we get done my whole uterus gets ... [snip!] ... my whole uterus gets rock hard and cramps up on my right side, it only hurts on the right. has anyone else had this problem?”

Yes and it was always my right side, too. My doctor told me it was because our son was always on my right side, which I knew because of how "uneven" my belly always was, especially when I'd lay down! HAHA!