re: inducing labor yourself

Quoting Mi'chell Petrie:" I don't see why you're siding with her! 35 weeks is NOT a date you want your baby to come out, is it? ... [snip!] ... if you want to chance having an unhealthy baby that needs to be in the NICU then you can wish your baby out at 35 weeks. :/"

I wouldn't want it for my baby because she's underweight as of right now. But if the doctor says that she can have the baby with no problems at 35 weeks then I would try everything too. I'm bashing the fact people were actually rude enough to, instead of saying I don't think it's a good idea, tell her she was smurfing retarded. If the doctor really said it was okay to have her at 35 weeks, which was mentioned I believe, then why talk so much smurf to her?

It's like high school over the internet. Im sorry but reading all the posts in this.. I cant believe how cruel people can be without knowing someone fully. She just asked a question.. you dont need to jump down her throat! Sure some of you might think its wrong.. but you dont need to repeat it over and over again. Calling someone a " piece of smurf " " a smurf " " a horrible mother " thats high school talking.
I thought we are all suppose to be adults. not kids?

your baby will come out when its ready I could see if its after your due date. I talked with my friend about this too she was only 28 weeks and having contractions, she is now 31 weeks and dialated to 3. They sent her home and told her to wait because the babies not ready to come out. She is now 33 weeks and still wants to be induced a week before her due date. I'm not sure why because I always thought it is better for your baby to come out when its ready to?

Quoting Steph.[ 36 weeks ]:" It's like high school over the internet. Im sorry but reading all the posts in this.. I cant believe ... [snip!] ... of smurf " " a smurf " " a horrible mother " thats high school talking. I thought we are all suppose to be adults. not kids?"

: ) My point exactly!

Quoting Melissa Caruso:" : ) My point exactly!"

If you are dumb, most ladies on here are going to call you out for it. It's not high school, its called being honest. The OP is a selfish dumb ass. As is anyone else who tries to force their baby out before it is ready, especially if it's only 35 weeks.

No doctor is going to say "hey you aren't even close to term, but its perfectly fine to have the baby now".

If you honestly believe that, then you are too stupid to become a mother IMO.

Quoting ♥Faith♥:" If you are dumb, most ladies on here are going to call you out for it. It's not high school, its called ... [snip!] ... but its perfectly fine to have the baby now". If you honestly believe that, then you are too stupid to become a mother IMO."

Slightly agree with that statement simply because 35 weeks IMO is too early. Full term is considered to be at 37 weeks, which isn't too far away from 35 weeks. But yes, still very dangerous to deliver at that point as the baby still needs some time to "bake" lol. I just don't think everyone should scream out their negitive opinions when she was asking a simple question. It's her choice whether or not she wants to try to have the baby early, not everyone elses. That's the joy of being parent. I mean hey, at least she isn't drinking and doing drugs right?!

Quoting Melissa Caruso:" Slightly agree with that statement simply because 35 weeks IMO is too early. Full term is considered ... [snip!] ... baby early, not everyone elses. That's the joy of being parent. I mean hey, at least she isn't drinking and doing drugs right?!"

Might wanna do some research. "term" is at 37-38 weeks. "Full Term" is full term...40 weeks.

And IMO inducing labor at 35 weeks is just as bad as drinking or doing drugs. All of those things could result in the baby having severe physical and mental problems.

Quoting ♥Faith♥:" Might wanna do some research. "term" is at 37-38 weeks. "Full Term" is full term...40 weeks. And IMO ... [snip!] ... as bad as drinking or doing drugs. All of those things could result in the baby having severe physical and mental problems."

That's so funny you say that I should do some research.


http://www.babycenter.com/6_your-pregnancy-37-weeks_1126.bc



Maybe YOU should be the one researching. Just saying.

Quoting Melissa Caruso:" That's so funny you say that I should do some research. http://www.babycenter.com/6_your-pregnancy-37-weeks_1126.bc Maybe YOU should be the one researching. Just saying."

Its call term...not full term. Ask a doctor.

I would but they can't even seem to wipe their asses here. I'm just glad the original poster had her baby and they were both healthy. Guess the doctor's were right in her situation. After all, that IS what this website is for right? For people to ask questions and get ACTUAL answers.

Quoting Melissa Caruso:" I would but they can't even seem to wipe their asses here. I'm just glad the original poster had her ... [snip!] ... right in her situation. After all, that IS what this website is for right? For people to ask questions and get ACTUAL answers."

It is a public forum. People can answer how ever they want. we gave her actual answers... that she was beyond stupid and selfish for wanting to force a baby out at 35 weeks.....thats an answer. Just happened to be one she didn't like.

Quoting Steph.[ 36 weeks ]:" It's like high school over the internet. Im sorry but reading all the posts in this.. I cant believe ... [snip!] ... of smurf " " a smurf " " a horrible mother " thats high school talking. I thought we are all suppose to be adults. not kids?"

Quoting ♥Faith♥:" It is a public forum. People can answer how ever they want. we gave her actual answers... that she was ... [snip!] ... stupid and selfish for wanting to force a baby out at 35 weeks.....thats an answer. Just happened to be one she didn't like."

LOL! I wouldn't either. But I also wouldn't try to have my baby at 35 weeks. I don't even really want her to come now at almost 39 weeks cause she's so small still! haha. BTW, That picture about giving a smurf is pretty awesome Super! : )

Quoting Melissa Caruso:" I would but they can't even seem to wipe their asses here. I'm just glad the original poster had her ... [snip!] ... right in her situation. After all, that IS what this website is for right? For people to ask questions and get ACTUAL answers."

The fact that her baby was born healthy before being full term is a streak of pure luck. Chances are if she tries it again the baby wont be as lucky.

Quoting Lovebugs:" The fact that her baby was born healthy before being full term is a streak of pure luck. Chances are if she tries it again the baby wont be as lucky."

I have to agree.

She was damn lucky her baby came out healthy.

I can't believe anyone would seriously want to risk that, just to have a baby a few weeks earlier.