Friends...at the same time...

I found out at maybe around 14 weeks i lost my baby...I would have been 16 weeks this past saturday... I hung out with some of my friends and met a girl that was exactly the same as i was...except she didnt lose hers. She is only a year older than me. IDK i know i should get over it...and people i am close to keep telling me it will be okay..its not a huge loss...butt o me it was...you know how it feels whens omething just becomes a part of you? Its just hard...i just look at her..she is naming her baby girl Lily. I just look up and ask....why?
you know?

idk...

thanks for listening...

Megan

losing a baby is the hardest thing ever and its hard to get over it no matter what..i am having trouble dealing with my pregnant friends too. i have trouble even talking to them and i sure cant be around them..i just found out one of my friends are pregnant and i am happy for her cause she has been ttc for 5 years, but its hard to see their glow when we went through this in our life so i know how you feel and if you need to talk feel free to PM me..i lost my baby at 23 weeks and he will forever be in my heart..my prayers are with you

Meggy. I was in the same boat as you. My best friend and I were a week apart. Everyone thought she would be the one to lose her baby, but I did. It was very hard for me to be around her and I couldnt even go to her baby shower. She knew what I was going through and respected me. It took me a very long time to get comfortable around her. The day she had the baby, I was there though. I am her baby's godparent now and it's one of the best things I ever agreed to do. It really helped with my healing.
Time is all you need dear. I know it may be hard for you to believe that right now, but trust me...you will be ok.