Fed up!!

iam sick and tired of oscar...(baby's daddy EX B/F) always wanting to do whatever the hell he wants all the time. Everytime he says he's going to pick me up from my house it takes him like 2 hours because he has to kick it with his homies and smoke weed before he comes for me..in other words he puts weed and his homies before me..ugh!! today he said he was going to pick me up at 7:00pm since his brother came to town with his wife and baby i wanted to go say hi and see the baby...well its already 11:30pm and he hasnt called or anything...i keep on calling him and he doesnt pick up...iam so mad right now..it might sound like iam over reacting but NO im not because this shit happens every effin day.....i left him a message saying it was over and i couldnt put up with him doing this shit all the time and making me mad all the time since its not good for me...idk if i did right by breakin up with him by leaving him a voicemail...im just soo mad....iam so sorry girls if you have to read my mean Ol' drama story but i just needed to get out of my system..since i cant tell my mom any of this because then she's going to talk shit about him and just bitch at me

Quoting Roxy&Oscar:“ iam sick and tired of oscar...(baby's daddy EX B/F) always wanting to do whatever the hell he wants all ... [snip!] ... get out of my system..since i cant tell my mom any of this because then she's going to talk shit about him and just bitch at me”

You let him pick you up when he's high?

yea but i drive where ever we have to go cause he drives all stupid like fast and stuff and i hate that

leeeave him 

wow  
how can you question if breaking up with him was a good idea???

Were you asking if you should leabe him because you want reassurance or are you really wondering?

good it sounds like you needed to get rid of him i just hope you guys stay broke up. but for some reason things like this always seem to go in that we are broke up today and back togther tomarrow type of thing. but thats just my opinon. best of luck tho

ugh I hate guys like that. I kinda dated a kid like that a long time ago, and he would do the same thing, like get high and never call me...and they will never change lol

wow, you picked a real winner to breed with.  
I don't understand why woman who have poor taste in men come on here to rant when they are the ones who have put themselves in the situation they are in.

Sorry, you've got no sympathy from me.

Obviously drugs and his friends are more important.
And if your baby is more important to you, then you shouldn't have to question if you did the right thing.

just wondering, did you guys try to get preggo?

Quoting MonkynsMama:“ wow, you picked a real winner to breed with.   I don't understand why woman who have poor taste ... [snip!] ... to rant when they are the ones who have put themselves in the situation they are in. Sorry, you've got no sympathy from me.”

That was so harsh and I feel so uncalled for.....

OP... I think its a good thing that you broke up with him. I think you need to stay away from him. It might not have been done the best way (vm over the phone) however, it needed to be done.

There is no reason that you should be put on the back burner to his friend and/or drugs. That's ridiculous. Especially when you're pregnant with his unborn child.

You need to stay strong and be by yourself for a while. Figure out what you want.... if you decide that you could work things out make sure that he does what he can to prove it to you that he's not going to be a jack ass.

If he can't prove to you that he's going to change while being friends and such...then DON'T take him back. He'll only resort to being a jack ass more.

Quoting MonkynsMama:“ wow, you picked a real winner to breed with.   I don't understand why woman who have poor taste ... [snip!] ... to rant when they are the ones who have put themselves in the situation they are in. Sorry, you've got no sympathy from me.”

your stupid!!

Quoting Sandra208:“ your stupid!!”

oh the irony...

it's you're stupid*  


p.s. can we get a head-shaking smiley in here??

Hopefully you stick to the decision that you have made or else he will think that it is just a joke and will never take you serously (sp)! Dillon and I had Dominik when we were 17 and I was much more grown up than he was, I always told him to stop going out and partying or I was going to leave him. He would always call my bluff and I would do nothing. For years he took advantage until I finally really left and still then it took him 1 1/2 years to get right, now we have the picture perfect family but it took years for us. Good men can be few and far between so don't settle. Good luck in the future... Obvoiusly he is not ready to be a good boyfriend much less and DAD!!