re: Rape and Sexual Abuse Survivors Thread

Quoting *Candis*:" I've seen this thread around and I think I may be comfortable enough to join, if that's ok."

everyone is welcome. The thread doesn't get many replies though, just a warning. Don't feel weird if it takes a while or you don't get many replies, it isn't you, it's just the thread.

Quoting Teagans_Mom:" everyone is welcome. The thread doesn't get many replies though, just a warning. Don't feel weird if it takes a while or you don't get many replies, it isn't you, it's just the thread."

Ah gotcha. thanks for the heads up.

Anyone here to talk?

Quoting Dulce Sunshine.♡:" Anyone here to talk? "

You can message me anytime.   I get on at least every day or two.

I'm glad to see how many strong women there are out there. I have been raped twice on two separate occasions by two separate people who I thought I could trust. To find someone you can trust to tell about your event to is a big help. My fiancé has been with me even after I told him about my first, and my second happened while we were dating. To find a SO who will support you and love you no matter what is the most amazing gift any survivor can have. Everyone heals in time, don't ever lose hope and remember as long as you survive the stronger you will always be.

I dont know if I qualify for this thread. I was sexually assaulted for 2.5 years, and am currently going to court over it. It was more inappropriate touching, so I originally thought they could charge him with Sexual Harassment, but because of the seriousness of the crime (I am not the only one pressing charges) the police moved it to the major crime unit and got a media release  
I have got to say, I am more depressed now than I have been in my entire life   Its horrible

Is there anyone still getting on here that is willing to talk/listen?

Quoting Reilly and Lila's Mommy:" Is there anyone still getting on here that is willing to talk/listen?"

I just saw your message today, but I'm here.

Quoting Mama to William + 1:" I just saw your message today, but I'm here."

Thank you. I ended up posting it to the crowd. I got really drunk and freaked out. I told my sister everything (the first IRL person to know anything about what happened).

Quoting Reilly and Lila's Mommy:" Thank you. I ended up posting it to the crowd. I got really drunk and freaked out. I told my sister everything (the first IRL person to know anything about what happened)."

I figured it was so long ago that you might have gone elsewhere but I know a lot of people who just keep it bottled up and thought I'd still offer. Hope all is well now.

I am glad there is somewhere for the true victims to turn to. I was reading earlier that a girl lied to her mother about being raped only to cover her ass, and it highly upset me. I don't know if it made me mad because I am pregnant with a boy and if someone were to do to my son what she did. to think of the things i could do to someone like that. Or if it is my hormones or simply because I myself have been raped and she makes us all look bad. idk but i am glad there is some where to turn.

Honestly, I don't feel comfortable about sharing this with family, but I need to get it off my chest. I am six months pregnant, and I am afraid my so called "friend" who choked me out, raped me and then threatened to kill my family and I is the father. I am afraid of him and have ignored him all the ways I can. I can't get a restraining order because I have no proof, and I feel like I brought this on myself, and hate myself for it. Even though deep down I know its not my fault. I hope to God that my fiance is the father, but I just don't know.

I think this thread is a terrific idea. I was sexually abused by my biological dad from age 1 -13.

I was molested by my sister's husband at the age of 14 (her ex husband now) anyway,i'm not going into details really on here. However i do have to appear in court nov. 30th with another woman who was a victim of him as well. In efforts to stop a nasty custody battle between him and my sister.

Well I'm really glad I found this thread...I don't really want to go into detail but my mom was addicted to crack/meth when I was growing up. She let random men rape me and my brothers so she could get drugs.