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i have not been on in awhile but i need to talk to someone. i found out today that my boyfriend has a e-mail address that i did not know about. well i know it was wrong to do but i broke into it. because i have this feeling he is cheating on me. well when i when into his inbox i found out that he has been on a sex website trying to meet other women. i think he is trying to fine someone to have sex with because my doctor told me no sex right now so he is mad at me for not giving him any. what would yall do if u caught your boyfriend or hubby on a sex website. i need some advice i dont know what to do thanks for reading

well i would say something to him about it, but maybe you should try and close his accout down

How did you find out about his secret e-mail?
I would confront him & personally I would break it off. That's just me though.. Im not down for porn, cybering , or anything of the sort.
Good luck with it whatever you do though.

hmm well before me and my babys father broke up he used to be on sex sites not as a mem but jus looking at diffrent post i dunno i dont think hes looking 4 anyone to have sex with online you know. its not like your the only woman where you guys live so i wouldent worry about the internet thing.


not to be nasty but since u cant have sex try some oral its still sex 

I would be so pissed that I would be puking green! (btw, it was super wrong for you to look through his things) I would call him out on it. Bring it up and ask him what the hell he is thinking. It sex really that big of a deal that he has to go outside of his relationship for it? You are on a doctors restriction not to have sex...it's not like you are just not giving it up. If he isn't honest with you...he is probably cheating. And god knows what he would be bringing home...and giving to you and possibly your baby. I would probably leave him.

Quoting Amy Victoria:“ well i would say something to him about it, but maybe you should try and close his accout down”

i tried but some reason it wont let me close it down

Quoting Kolton's Mommy:“ i have not been on in awhile but i need to talk to someone. i found out today that my boyfriend has a ... [snip!] ... yall do if u caught your boyfriend or hubby on a sex website. i need some advice i dont know what to do thanks for reading”

what would i do? i'd kick him out of the house. pron is one thing, but actively trying to meet someone for sex is quite another. i'd call him a slut and tell him that if he was interested in keeping his genitals attached to his body that he had better get far away from me. i'm not sure if this is helpful to you, but that's a deal breaker for me. i consider that cheating.

Definatly approach him with your findings. I"d make copies of the people he's been tying to meet and tell him counseling or a divorce and those will go to court with you. Sorry so harsh, don't know if that's the answer you want..but I don't "f" around when it comes to shit like that. A woman instinct is always right..it's like our little gift!!

Ok, so I'm awful, but I would contact him via the site under a false name and see how he responds. If he tries to start stuff set up a time to meet and then take a friend with you to meet him. That way you can bust him in the act and know for sure that something is going on. It could just be that he is looking to just look and isn't planning on doing anything. Its not like it makes it better, but at least he isn't actually messing around with other people.

Or you could log into his account and change the details to make him really unappealing to other women. Something like "I am trolling the internet for sex because my significant other is on doctor-ordered abstinance and I'm a total jerk" :-)

So sorry you have to deal with this crap.

Quoting andrea & baby:“ How did you find out about his secret e-mail? I would confront him & personally I would break it ... [snip!] ... That's just me though.. Im not down for porn, cybering , or anything of the sort. Good luck with it whatever you do though.”

i was wondering why he was on the computer early in the morning and not in bed when i woke up. and i was wondering why he had to yahoo messagers and not just one. so i broke into his other yahoo messager and found that he had another e-mail address

Quoting KelRel:“ Ok, so I'm awful, but I would contact him via the site under a false name and see how he responds. If ... [snip!] ... my significant other is on doctor-ordered abstinance and I'm a total jerk" :-) So sorry you have to deal with this crap.”

ohh i like the first idea.
that way you know if he is being honest or not when he says either he is just looking around or actually trying to find someone to mess around with.

Quoting Kolton's Mommy:“ i was wondering why he was on the computer early in the morning and not in bed when i woke up. and i ... [snip!] ... had to yahoo messagers and not just one. so i broke into his other yahoo messager and found that he had another e-mail address”

I don't think its wrong to check out what is going on if he's acting suspicious like that.
I'd do the same.

Quoting KelRel:“ Ok, so I'm awful, but I would contact him via the site under a false name and see how he responds. If ... [snip!] ... my significant other is on doctor-ordered abstinance and I'm a total jerk" :-) So sorry you have to deal with this crap.”

Oh yeah..didn't even think of that...contacting him under a false name! Then you would know his TRUE motives!

Quoting inluvwitmylittleone:“ I would be so pissed that I would be puking green! (btw, it was super wrong for you to look through his ... [snip!] ... cheating. And god knows what he would be bringing home...and giving to you and possibly your baby. I would probably leave him.”

i know it was wrong this is not the first time i caught him doing something like this. my friends was telling me he was trying to hook up with them on myspace so my friend broke into his myspace and found e-mail that he was sending to my friend saying he liked them and wanted to do things to them in a sexual way. i asked him about it and showed the e-mails to him and he told me he was not sending stuff like that to my friends

the only way to tell about that is get a fake one for yourself on yahoo messanger and try to use someone elses computer and chat with him to see....if he says anything different. im new to this site...so im finding it pretty neat