:( *sigh*

Heres my story.  I was bleeding on Saturday, so i went to the ER.  They did an u/s and said the baby had no heartbeat.  They told me to wait until it passes, and it doesn't by the end of the week, I have to go for a D and C.  I haven't been able to stop crying.  the worst part is waiting for it to pass.  I can't even begin to heal until then.

Thanks for reading.

I am so sorry. I wish I could say something to help. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My first pregnancy several years ago ended that way. Im kind of surprised that they did not give you the option of a D&C. If you need someone to talk to message me....

miscarriage is a painful thing. i send my prayers to you to help you find some strengh.

i could not even begin to imagin what your going through,
i read what you wrote, and was dumb founded, i feel really
bad, my thoughts & prayers are with you, good luck.

i cant imagine what your going through. :[[ im so sorry. im praying for you!

I'm sorry that happened. it's happened to me twice   .. I know how you feel if you need anything you can message me also. (the 2nd time it happened the doctor asked me to bring in a baggie whatever i passed) i couldnt' bring myself to do it

good luck i'm sorry again

Thanks for your kind words everyone.  I just hope this gets easier

I know what you are going through. I went through it about 2 weeks ago. I was 10 weeks when we found out and since I didn't miscarry on my own, I had a D&C done a week later.

I am so sorry this has happened to you. I know it feels like your world has come crashing down and right now you need to take care of yourself and get a lot of rest. If you do need a D&C, it's not that bad. I recovered from mine in a few days. The emotional part is the hardest to recover from. That will take a while. Cry as much as you want and don't worry if it takes a little while to feel normal again. You'll recover at your own pace.

Sending hugs your way,

Sarah

Quoting auntiem:“ the worst part is waiting for it to pass. I can't even begin to heal until then. Thanks for reading.”

I'm going through the same thing as I type. I'm sorry for your loss, I wouldn't wish this on my WORST enemy! I found out last Thursday at my 8week U/S that our baby didn't live past 6wk 1 day (the same day we saw the heartbeat just weeks ealier). And now it is Monday and I am still waiting for it to pass. I walk around my house like a zombie unable to function. I had the reality of shopping/preparing for my own miscarriage - very depressing and sureal. My Husband is already trying to move on (it's the only way he knows how to deal) but I cannot move on until I can grieve and I cannot grieve for my baby until I am no longer carrying it. I am opting to go to my Doc tomorrow and hopfully have a D&C. I cannot handle nature taking its course...it is too torturous for me. Let me know if you ever want to talk. I added you to my parent tank.....

Quoting auntiem:“ Heres my story. I was bleeding on Saturday, so i went to the ER. They did an u/s and said the baby ... [snip!] ... able to stop crying. the worst part is waiting for it to pass. I can't even begin to heal until then. Thanks for reading.”

I am so sorry for you loss. PM me if you need to talk.