Quoting Dollysauntie:" Any of you want to know what it's like to live a day in our shoes? You all sit there behind your computer ... [snip!] ... most horrific things that a family can deal with. The last 582 days have been difficult we are still waiting for time to heal."
So I'm assuming you're one of the parents? This topic is super old, I highly doubt the original posters are subscribed to it anymore. The only way we're seeing it is because you searched out a topic from 2011 just to comment on it so now its been brought up on the first page of D&D. Now you've just opened the flood gates for people to comment on this particular situation.