re: The Struggles of TTC Support Group!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Miss. Tiff:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting [Mrs. C]:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Miss. Tiff:</b>" ... [snip!] ... idk...... Have to talk with Dr. I just don't want to be left still wondering ..... Why can't I get pregnant why does sex hurt?"</blockquote>

That was my biggest fear too. Try to look at it as: the chance of them finding something that will give you answers (in my case, blocked tubes) is well worth the risk of them finding nothing. It's really the best way to know for 100% what is going on in there. Still stressful though. *Hugs*

<blockquote><b>Quoting [Mrs. C]:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Miss. Tiff:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting [Mrs. C]:</b>" ... [snip!] ... of them finding nothing. It's really the best way to know for 100% what is going on in there. Still stressful though. *Hugs*"</blockquote>




Thank you for these words.
Surgery is in 2 days. I'll keep you posted.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥ Dani ♥:</b>" I am so sorry. Is there anything that they can do? ((hugs))"</blockquote>




Once they make sure that this is EXACTLY what's causing my infertility, it is reversible, but it's more testing. Uuugh. But it's nice to know whats going on and moving in a forward direction

Hi ladies. So I had my post op appointment on Monday.

Everything is healing the way it should, which is good. Unfortunately the final surgery report wasn't as reassuring as I'd thought. It showed that my tube is damaged because it's filled with fluid? Apparently this type of blockage can't be fixed, and the fluid from the tube is known to excrete and irritate the uterus/make it difficult for an embryo to implant. So although one tube is clear... We are still in the smurfs   The bad tube will have to be removed before we do any treatments.

I know we will eventually get through this but it's so hard. I try everyday to look on the bright side but I'm heartbroken. Dh and I have decided to wait until after the holidays to move on to the next step. A miracle between now & then would be fantastic.

Thanks for listening ladies  

<blockquote><b>Quoting [Mrs. C]:</b>" Hi ladies. So I had my post op appointment on Monday. Everything is healing the way it should, which ... [snip!] ... the holidays to move on to the next step. A miracle between now & then would be fantastic. Thanks for listening ladies  "</blockquote>




Oh no! I am SO sorry to hear this!!!   my thoughts are with you!! So after the holidays, are you going to go ahead and get the tube removed?

It's very heartbreaking to go through this struggle, just know that we are all here for you!!! xoxo

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs.O♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting [Mrs. C]:</b>" Hi ladies. So I had my post op appointment on ... [snip!] ... and get the tube removed? It's very heartbreaking to go through this struggle, just know that we are all here for you!!! xoxo"</blockquote>

Thanks Ashleigh   I appreciate that, It means a lot to hear it from someone who is going through the same struggle and truly understands.

I have to do some insurance homework to see if they will cover the surgery. If so, I'd like to get it over with after the holidays so we can move onto treatments. Feels like a never ending process / waiting game. I'm sure you can relate!

Quoting [Mrs. C]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs.O♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting [Mrs. ... [snip!] ... after the holidays so we can move onto treatments. Feels like a never ending process / waiting game. I'm sure you can relate!"

Wow I'm sorry the news wasn't what you were hoping for! It's so frustrating to get news like that! Just remember you can overcome this, you have come this far! Prayers coming your way!

<blockquote><b>Quoting [Mrs. C]:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs.O♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting [Mrs. ... [snip!] ... after the holidays so we can move onto treatments. Feels like a never ending process / waiting game. I'm sure you can relate!"</blockquote>



No problem girl. I'm always here for ya!! Hope insurance covers it!

So I had my laprascopic surgery yesterday, today I'm very very sore. I've have to say I'd rather have another dnc as far as the pain wise.

Update: they found endo, and.adhesions/scar tissue (from my c section.Dr said)
What was found was done away with. as best as possible. I also got lots of pictures of it which grosses some ppl out but for me im interested.

My aunt with me to surgery. She has.endo also she had 3 living children, 5 documented mc& had full hysterectomy.at 30 yrs. While I was recovering she spoke with my Dr about her experience with needs and more of my history.
Although I didn't get the clean bill of health,.I left the hospital with relief knowing I left with answers!
And I have faith in this Dr. I hope he'll help me with getting my wish 

And for the rest of you.baby & sticky dust ****

One thing I'd suggest if your Dr won't listen, don't seem to care that you feel somethings wrong then get a second opinion,.3rd. Opinion whatever it takes.don't know what stage my endo is. .but when I mentioned about my infertility at my last clinic they said they would do anything till I was 30 years old!! .i wasn't taking that answer at all. They made me cry and never bothered to ask why, they didn't ask why I was crying,.why I was upset. They treated me as nothing was wrong, no tears flowing from my eyes, they carried on as if EVERYTHING.was fine. That office is where I. Went when I had my first pregnancy/loss & was well aware that I had lost 2.

Anyways, I have a F/u appt in 2 Weeks so figure out the best next step for me.

<blockquote><b>Quoting [Mrs. C]:</b>" Hi ladies. So I had my post op appointment on Monday. Everything is healing the way it should, which ... [snip!] ... the holidays to move on to the next step. A miracle between now & then would be fantastic. Thanks for listening ladies  "</blockquote>



I'm sorry to hear this. I know another women who just had BOTH.tubes removed. I hope its easier On her seeing how she has 3 already but washoping for a girl.
I'm glad you're staying positive! I wish all mommy s at heart could become mothers in real life.

not been on bg as much, mostly baby stuff has been getting to me more since 3rd miscarriage in sept, how long it took made it even worst than other 2 for me. but we're stll trying and actually on cd 30 already lol took hpt other day and looked liek a shadow almost there. gonna wait few more days to test again

Melissa- if you're still in this thread, I just wanted to say CONGRATS on having Alexander!!!!      

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs.O♥:</b>" Melissa- if you're still in this thread, I just wanted to say CONGRATS on having Alexander!!!!      "</blockquote>




Thank you! I am still here. Aj is doing great! I will.post more later!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tyler-Man's Mommy + 1!:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs.O♥:</b>" Melissa- if you're still in this thread, ... [snip!] ... having Alexander!!!!      "</blockquote> Thank you! I am still here. Aj is doing great! I will.post more later!"</blockquote>




Yay that's great!! Can't wait to see more pictures!

I'm healing nicely from the lap and finding the endo etc. I have my F/u appt tomorrow. And AF is here and I can't wait to start trying!!