re: The Struggles of TTC Support Group!
posted 21st Sep
Quoting Mrs.O♥:" Good news!!!!!! The hospital will take DHs insurance!!! "
Im happy that they are going to cover the hospital chargers and you only have to come up with the surgeon fee and that you are getting help with that. This is some great news for you guys!
quoteposted 21st Sep
Quoting Mrs. Clemens:" Long time no post. Things have just been too crazy emotionally for me to keep up. I went for CT scan ... [snip!] ... of PCOS, but they can be with this also. Just an FYI to anyone going through infertility with "PCOS" and not getting anywhere."
I am so sorry. Is there anything that they can do? ((hugs))
quoteposted 21st Sep
Quoting [Mrs. C]:" Just realized my last post didn't show up. Roxy- I'm so glad to hear that all went well. I was thinking ... [snip!] ... luck we will start researching IVF. Thank you ladies for listening & being there for me every step of this crazy journey <3"
wow. I am so sorry. The dr is right though, you only need 1 tube. Can they help you better your chances of conceiving with the one tube without doing IVF?
quoteposted 21st Sep
Quoting Rox my Socks:" WARNING WARNING. SEMI-GROSS PICTURES WARNING. + + + So I went in for the follow up. Pretty much told ... [snip!] ... Said I might have a wacky cycle this month because they put me on birth control for the surgery and of course the new "space"."
WOW! those polyps were big. I hope you can get the BFP quickly now that your tubes are open and ready for business!
quoteposted 21st Sep
Hey ladies. I have been keeping up when I can but it's been a rough month emotionally. I don't know if I can do this TTC anymore. We found out that DH insurance is going to be $250 a week to cover all of us. That is half of his check. I am so emotionally drained from this process and now 2 miscarriages in the last 6 months. I'm angry and starting to question my faith. I told DH that I want to go on BC, that I am done trying, and this really upset him. He doesn't want to stop trying but I can't handle this "it will happpen when its supposed to" bs anymore. I don't know what to do. I want anoher child so badly but I don't think my emotions can take the let down any longer. Then I feel so bad for feeling that way because I know some of you would kill to have a child and I have been blessed with one already. I don't know anymore.... School starts monday for me, so I guess for now I focus on that and the only thing I keep track of is when AF starts. Thanks for listening. I don't know who else to talk to.
quoteposted 22nd Sep
well,, this cycle is already going super fast. we were suppose to be moving to va to grandparent's basement to start over but grandma too sick now. so now we're staying, and found out friends of ours were living in their van so we scrapped together money and they are driving from tn here today and are going to live in guestroom and get jobs and help out with all bills. im going to be applying for jobs. so past few days shifted from moving to cleaning out guestroom and getting stuff sorted out for yard sale. didnt even realize it was cd 9 until looked it up. i usually start opks on cd7 lol
quoteposted 22nd Sep
<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥ Dani ♥:</b>" wow. I am so sorry. The dr is right though, you only need 1 tube. Can they help you better your chances of conceiving with the one tube without doing IVF?"</blockquote>
Thanks Dani. I'm still a little shocked (mainly because I did the HSG first & it came back normal! What the hell?) but holding onto hope. We were cleared to start Clomid and injections, but my heart is telling me to give it a little more time of trying on our own without meds to see if clearing the one tube helped.
I'm sorry to hear about your Husband's ins, I feel for you. Through my company, a family plan is $230 a week which I've always thought was ridiculous. Idk how the insurance companies (or whoever sets the rates) come up with these stupid prices. Thinking of you!
quoteposted 26th Sep
<blockquote><b>Quoting [Mrs. C]:</b>" Just realized my last post didn't show up. Roxy- I'm so glad to hear that all went well. I was thinking ... [snip!] ... luck we will start researching IVF. Thank you ladies for listening & being there for me every step of this crazy journey <3"</blockquote>
I'm sorry to hear. But Atleast you've gotten answers that's all I want right now. I've FINALLY got a Dr that's helping me out. I've had 2 pelvic exams which were abnormal. My pap was normal and the ultrasound and the culture swab...... So now in having a diagnostic laproscopy done to check for endo, etc. I'm praying for any need and any answers good or bad. My surgery is Oct 3rd!
quoteposted 26th Sep
<blockquote><b>Quoting Rox my Socks:</b>" Hey ladies. Had my hysteroscopy yesterday. Anesthesia finally wore out so now its 2am and i can't go ... [snip!] ... cervix so I'm hoping this finally cures my infertility. I have a follow up appointment on the 20th. My throat is killing me ."</blockquote>
That's the procedure I'm having next week? Did they do ultrasound before surgery?
quoteposted 27th Sep
<blockquote><b>Quoting Miss. Tiff:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Rox my Socks:</b>" Hey ladies. Had my hysteroscopy yesterday. ... [snip!] ... is killing me ."</blockquote> That's the procedure I'm having next week? Did they do ultrasound before surgery?"</blockquote>
I had the procedure done as well, 2 weeks ago. I had an ultrasound done a couple of months prior to the surgery as part of the infertility work up, but that was it. If that makes sense?
Best of luck, hope you are able to get some answers. Let me know if you have any questions about what to expect or anything!
quoteposted 27th Sep
IVF consultation tomorrow morning super excited!
quoteposted 28th Sep
<blockquote><b>Quoting [Mrs. C]:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Miss. Tiff:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Rox my Socks:</b>" ... [snip!] ... Best of luck, hope you are able to get some answers. Let me know if you have any questions about what to expect or anything!"</blockquote>
Thank you. My fear is the unknown, what if nothing is found? Then what maybe try fertility treatments idk...... Have to talk with Dr. I just don't want to be left still wondering ..... Why can't I get pregnant why does sex hurt?
quoteposted 28th Sep
<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs.O♥:</b>" IVF consultation tomorrow morning super excited!"</blockquote>
Good luck! :-)
quoteposted 29th Sep
<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs.O♥:</b>" IVF consultation tomorrow morning super excited!"</blockquote>
Yay!! How did it go?!
quoteposted 29th Sep
<blockquote><b>Quoting [Mrs. C]:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs.O♥:</b>" IVF consultation tomorrow morning super excited!"</blockquote> Yay!! How did it go?!"</blockquote>
It went great!!!! We can start once Patrick has his surgery, we just need to save in order to get it done. I'm hoping January, since its going to be the holidays and his birthday soon, I would feel bad if he was all sore for thanksgiving or something lol
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