Round 4 or is it 5 of this BS *Vent* Sorry long!

Okay. So Colt (Baby's father) and I were doing so good. We were best friends again and talked about getting married and all that but then out of nowhere he decides to change his mind about everything. I gave him money so that he wouldn't go to prison and so that he could move up to live with me. (He currently lives 5 hours away). Well so he called as soon as he got the money and thanked me and told me he loved me and how he would be here later that week so that he could find a job and go to the doctor with me and all that jazz. Well I dont hear from him for 3 days and by that time I am not happy and I have probably said some very mean things to him. Well I talk to his roommate and find out that the whole time I was being played just for the money. Seriously? Why waste your time for a little over a hundred dollars? I probably would have given it anyway. Well then I find out that he already has a new girlfriend and they are all madly in love or whatever. Well this girl decides that she is gonna get information about Colt out of me. She just found out that I even existed, he had lied to her. Well I tell her what I know about Colt and answer her stupid questions. The worst question was " Are u sure its Colt's?" Excuse me?!? I am pretty positive. I was there when I got pregnant and I am pretty sure I know who I was with at the time thanks! Well then she goes on and asks me if the baby is gonna have Colt's last name and when I told her NO it all hit the fan. He tells her that he is gonna take me to court to make sure the baby has his last name. He and I are not married, are not together and I have the right to namemy child whatever I want. I told her that was good that I would see his ass in court for child support. I am just pissed off that he could do that. And he says that he doesn't want to be a dead-beat dad. But in my opinion, it takes a real man to be a dad and he isn't a real man, I mean he can't even come to me and tell me what is going on. Pretty lame to me.
Sorry I just needed to vent. I had a bad week.

Quoting ~*~AprilMommy~*~:“ Okay. So Colt (Baby's father) and I were doing so good. We were best friends again and talked about getting ... [snip!] ... mean he can't even come to me and tell me what is going on. Pretty lame to me. Sorry I just needed to vent. I had a bad week.”

He sounds like a worthless asshole babe. Don't loan out any more cash

Well I am pretty sure he is a worthless asshole and I gave him the money so we could be together and that I could see him soon rather than him going to prison and not even meeting our child until 6 years down the road. Don't worry. I will not be giving him any more money.

What an asshole! sue his ass and make him pay you back! lol j/k
when you go to court make sure you ask if you can get back child support since your baby was born that way if it takes a couple months to get any child support he will have to pay alot of it lol.

Quoting ~*~AprilMommy~*~:“ Okay. So Colt (Baby's father) and I were doing so good. We were best friends again and talked about getting ... [snip!] ... mean he can't even come to me and tell me what is going on. Pretty lame to me. Sorry I just needed to vent. I had a bad week.”

Wow. What an asshole! It's probably best he's moved one. Because you AND your baby deserve better! His new GF will get fu*ked over too.

Oh I know his new girlfriend will get fu*ked over too because he has said all the things to her that he has said to me. I will be getting child support for him. My mom is helping me get the papers and everything together and getting a lawyer.
The funniest thing about all of this is just two weeks ago he was pissed off at me for not listening to him and listening to my mom cuz he thought that I should go to the hospital and I didn't so he didn't speak to me for a week.

Quoting ~*~AprilMommy~*~:“ Okay. So Colt (Baby's father) and I were doing so good. We were best friends again and talked about getting ... [snip!] ... mean he can't even come to me and tell me what is going on. Pretty lame to me. Sorry I just needed to vent. I had a bad week.”

Also to help in your case, he hasn't been there for the pregnancy, why now? The child's been in YOU, YOU have taken YOURSELF to the doctors, done everything you needed, and all, he shouldn't have a right to this baby, just because some teenybopper talks to him about it.

Quoting DaniBaby's Having A Son:“ Also to help in your case, he hasn't been there for the pregnancy, why now? The child's been in YOU, ... [snip!] ... everything you needed, and all, he shouldn't have a right to this baby, just because some teenybopper talks to him about it.”

Yeah. Exactly. He said all that BS about wanting to be here and taking care of our baby but hasn't given any effort and his stupid bitch of a girlfriend would get it if I wasn't pregnant.

Quoting ~*~AprilMommy~*~:“ Yeah. Exactly. He said all that BS about wanting to be here and taking care of our baby but hasn't given any effort and his stupid bitch of a girlfriend would get it if I wasn't pregnant.”

Get a friend they don't know to beat her ass. They can't say it was you, and you'll be satisfied, haha. I almost resorted to tgetting someone beat AJ's ass... until he started being nice =]

Yeah... I have called a friend down there and she knows some people and I told her if it was necessary to get one of our guy friends to just punch Colt in his big dumb face and then she could beat the stupid girl up. Nobody would figure it out considering Colt doesn't know all my girls down there. I would have a better chance at figuring it all out if I was down there, but being five hours away makes it kind of a task!

Quoting ~*~AprilMommy~*~:“ Yeah... I have called a friend down there and she knows some people and I told her if it was necessary ... [snip!] ... I would have a better chance at figuring it all out if I was down there, but being five hours away makes it kind of a task!”

Yeah, pretty hard to do, but haha, sounds like a great plan! With all that's been said, you could probably say he'd be an unfit father, you want full custody, and his rights as a "so-called father" be taken completely away!

Yeah I could. But I did promise that I wouldn't take his child away. If he actually truly wants to be there and be a dad then he can have his time. He will be paying child support so I guess that is fair. My dad was in and out of my life for the longest time and I want my baby to have a dad that she can count on. Colt probably wont be that dad but he has to make that choice.

Quoting ~*~AprilMommy~*~:“ Yeah I could. But I did promise that I wouldn't take his child away. If he actually truly wants to be ... [snip!] ... time and I want my baby to have a dad that she can count on. Colt probably wont be that dad but he has to make that choice.”

Wow, you're a better person than me. lol. Yeah, I want my son to have a father, so I worked things out with mine...

There won't be any working on anything with that loser. I would seriously be fine if he just fell off the face of the earth. Maybe he could get stabbed in the face. I dont want him to die, just suffer a little bit.

Quoting ~*~AprilMommy~*~:“ There won't be any working on anything with that loser. I would seriously be fine if he just fell off ... [snip!] ... just fell off the face of the earth. Maybe he could get stabbed in the face. I dont want him to die, just suffer a little bit.”

=] Love that thought. Hmm. lol.