re: **The Boy Team**

Quoting SoldiersBeauty:“ you left dang”

when??

Chris and I had a big heart to heart. Several times I thought we were gonna call it quits.
He's agreed to sell the bike (he has a buyer I just confirmed  ) and that he won't talk to that chick Crystal any more. He hasn't agreed to be home more because he's "an adult" but he will tell me what time he will be home and stick to that time.
He's still not very good with emotions but cried when I started crying. He still seems like kind of an ass at times (horrible listener and not good with any kind of feelings. He's also more likely to walk away than stay and fix something). There are many pros and cons to being together and I'm still pretty confused.
He's also possibly getting a job in a different town and I would have to move and relocate with him.
He seems to want to still have time and freedoms, where as I think heshould have giventhat up (for the most part) once the baby came. He doesn't see it this way. I'm not sure I can ever change his mind about that one.

well i really like the idea that he is willing to change and aknowledge that some of the stuff that he did before was wrong. it will take time for him to adjust to everything but i do like that he is willing and has made some changes!

Quoting mrs.heimpel:“ well i really like the idea that he is willing to change and aknowledge that some of the stuff that he ... [snip!] ... before was wrong. it will take time for him to adjust to everything but i do like that he is willing and has made some changes!”

I'm waiting to see if this sticks or if it's back to life as normal. I think that having a baby has been a huge shock for him. He didn't want any more kids   and then along came Hayden.

at least he's trying corrie.

do you still have thefirethough?

Quoting SoldiersBeauty:“ at least he's trying corrie. do you still have thefirethough?”

well it definitely put things in perspective when i thought i'd lost him forever. i wanted nothing more than to be with him. so i'd say yes.
i think we both had a lot going on and a lot of problems to work through. that and we're both such hardheaded stubborn people. and we don't like to apologize

Quoting Pirate Santa *EVIL BITCH*:“ I'm waiting to see if this sticks or if it's back to life as normal. I think that having a baby has been a huge shock for him. He didn't want any more kids   and then along came Hayden.”

anymore kids?? does he already have one?

Quoting Pirate Santa *EVIL BITCH*:“ well it definitely put things in perspective when i thought i'd lost him forever. i wanted nothing ... [snip!] ... on and a lot of problems to work through. that and we're both such hardheaded stubborn people. and we don't like to apologize”

as rach stated: do you still have the fire--cause i knew you were questioning before whether or not you were even attracted to him anymore?

Quoting mrs.heimpel:“ anymore kids?? does he already have one?”

yeah an 8 year old

Quoting Pirate Santa *EVIL BITCH*:“ well it definitely put things in perspective when i thought i'd lost him forever. i wanted nothing ... [snip!] ... on and a lot of problems to work through. that and we're both such hardheaded stubborn people. and we don't like to apologize”

thats good. if you love it let it go if it never returns it was never yours to begin with. if it returns it was meant to be yours.

i forgot how that saying goes..but its something like that.

Quoting Pirate Santa *EVIL BITCH*:“ yeah an 8 year old”

and chris is haydens dad right? ( i cant remember if i asked you that before or not)

Quoting SoldiersBeauty:“ thats good. if you love it let it go if it never returns it was never yours to begin with. if it returns it was meant to be yours. i forgot how that saying goes..but its something like that.”

yeah something like that...

if you love something let it go and if it comes back then it was meant to be......etc.etc.etc..lol

Quoting mrs.heimpel:“ and chris is haydens dad right? ( i cant remember if i asked you that before or not)”

no. he's been with me the whole pregnancy and has been raising hayden as his own (hayden's dad was cheating on me with chris' current girlfriend) confusing. yes i know. but now he's freaking out about being a father and being expected to care for baby.

things like that happen since thats not his kid you know? but your still greatful that he stuck there with you. he should help step up and play daddy since he'll know no other daddy but him, you know

Quoting SoldiersBeauty:“ things like that happen since thats not his kid you know? but your still greatful that he stuck there with you. he should help step up and play daddy since he'll know no other daddy but him, you know”

i get that it's not his kid which is why i try to relax. but he knew the WHOLE TIME i was pregnant that there would be a baby and then was supportive for the first 3 months. WHY now?