I dont feel like having sex anymore... But I dont know how t

Im 8months and 6days along now.... And I havnt wanted to have sex for like 4months... But I keep doing it to make him happy... But the further along I get, the less I want to do it, and the more it hurts after... But I have no idea what Im supost to say to him... I would feel like Im letting him down or somthing... I know he wouldnt be mad, and that he would understand... But I still feel like I should just keep doing it even though I dont want to...

Does anyone else feel this way???

I completely understand how you feel. I am only 6 months along and I have not been able to get into the "mood" for about 2 months now. I just explained to my husband that it's not him that it's the pregnancy that is making me this way. I feel like I'm going to hurt the baby even though I'm not. I just can't be in the mood when I know our baby is in there. Its normal to feel the way you do I know a lot of girls who feel that way.

i know how you feel too. but dont forget, if you dont want to have sex theres always oral.

If you don't want to have sex because it hurt's then just explain that to him, I'm sure he will understand and doesn't want to hurt you..

I know how you feel but if you dont want it, dont do it. You would only end up making the situation worse and start resenting him or sex completly.

Explain to him and he should understand, this way it will take a huge amount of pressure of you and maybe you might then start wanting it again.

Good luck hun  

Heh lets just say we all feel that way, i have phases, like i want it so bad i just cant find the motivation to get my preggo butt into it. I just keep telling my boyfriend i know i dont give it to you that often and im sorry but trust me once im healed and back on birth control its on boy! Lol and he knows it too  

Thank you ladies for all the help... I really needed it!!!