He just doesn't get it!!! kinda long

Today was my boyfriend's 1st day of college and I haven't talked to him all day!! I'm sitting here about to pop and he doesn't call or text and ask me how i'm doing or anything!! I didn't want him to go to school right now anyway. Don't get me wrong i want him to go to school and do what makes him happy, but i think he could've waited to go til the fall since his daughter is about to be born and i kno this is how it's going to be when she gets here. I'm afraid Hayden won't kno him and that's what hurts me!! He's going to school for 3 years and is going to miss the first 3 years of her life all of her 1st's and he can't get those back and he doesn't seem to care. I lived with him for a few months (that's y i haven't been on in a while) and at first he was going to school for a year now he's going for 3 years and i was going to be there with the baby by myself and i have no idea what i'm doing with a newborn so i moved back in with my parents so my mom could help me til i get used to the new baby. Am i being selfish or am i wanting too much?? I don't kno I'm so confused.

You should be proud of him going to college. The more educated he is, the better he can provide for you and your daughter. I know it sucks with him being away more often, though, as my husband just started college as well. However, I know it is for the best in the long run and we'll all be better off when he's finished.

Where is he going to school at that he wont be able to at least make it home for holidays?

And dont fault him ma, i know you frustrated but college is step one in making your babies life better. support him and be proud of him... he might be hurt to be away from you too....

i agree. be proud of him. how far away is he? plus he still has summer vacations and such. and be thankful for that. due to my job in the military, i am getting assigned to a boat 6 months after my baby is born and will be assigned to that boat for 3 years. someone else is gonna have to pretty much raise him for me while i am gone and it kills me. but i have no other choice. granted i'll be able to take leave to go see him and whatnot, but it is going to be hard to leave him with someone else for so long... i wish i could keep him in my belly forever so i don't have to go haha

I don't think you should be mad. I am still going to school and my baby will be here in June but I don't know how I would do it if my boyfriend wasn't supporting me in finishing school & my university is an hour & a half away, although I won't live there after the baby is born.

He'll be close to us and i am very proud of him for going to college it isn't that I guess i thought it would be me and him raising her instead of just me. And he will be going to school during the summer too and working. It's hard for me to be away from him now that i live with my parents again I miss him sooo much I don't want my daughter to suffer and i def. don't want to hear when she gets older and can talk i miss my daddy and there's nothing i can do about it