should i ??
posted 5th Feb '07
should i try for baby number 5 or do you think that 4 is ok
i think i should have one more but my other half said that 4 is ok what do all of you think
quoteposted 5th Feb '07
I think that is entirely up to you. My opinion wouldnt really mean anything. I wouldnt have 5 kids personally, but that is just me. Good luck either way!
quoteI have 1 child & live in
Texasposted 5th Feb '07
i think u need to wait till that 3 week old is older and then think about it!!!!
quoteposted 5th Feb '07
Are you trying for a football team lol.
You've just had a 3 week old. So wait about 6 months before anything. Also you should talk to your doctor as the more babies you have the harder it gets. I think the average woman can have up to 8 babies before she can't have anymore (due to the uterus not being able to takle it anymore)
I'm just sticking to what I got, a step daughter and one on the way..maybe in a couple of years we'll chnge our mind, but i'm not counting my chickens before they hatch
quoteposted 5th Feb '07
I would stick to 4 but its up to you...do you really want 5 under 5s? Do you have that much energy? rooms? money? lol id a least wait a bit before you decided.
quoteposted 5th Feb '07
thanks everone i am going to wait till kyle thane is a year old then try
i have the room the money the energy for 5 kids i am going to wait thanks everone
quoteposted 5th Feb '07
I'd go for it if you can afford it
quoteI have 1 child & live in
Hawaiiposted 5th Feb '07
really i have the money but i am going to wait to kyle thane is a year old so he will not be to yonge then
quoteposted 5th Feb '07
there was 5 kids in my family when i grew up and 6 in my husbands and we both loved it.
quoteposted 5th Feb '07
really my sister has 10 kids and she loves it so i am not having 10 but maybe 6 or 5
quoteposted 5th Feb '07
A lot of it depends on you. For one thing, with a 3-week-old, I'd definitely consider waiting, maybe at least 'til that baby gets off the bottle. For me personally, it's hard enough being pregnant with 2 kids that are not in diapers, lol. I can't imagine being pregnant with a teeny-tiny baby to take care of!
Also, it depends on your financial situation. My sis is preggo with #5, and their finances aren't in great shape, and my parents are upset with them for having another one. Her husband is working 3 jobs already just to make ends meet.
If you think you can handle another mouth to feed and a butt to diaper financially, then go for it, but maybe wait 'til your wee one gets a year or so older AT LEAST! That's just my opinion :-)
quoteposted 5th Feb '07
thanks i work my oh half stays at home because i have a very good paying job thanks for the help
quoteposted 5th Feb '07
you are 16-years-old and you want to have your 5th baby?
you need a reality check sweetie.
quoteposted 5th Feb '07
also your story doesn't match up.
your said you had your baby 3 weeks ago in another post.
on january 14th you posted that you were 30 weeks pregnant. that was 3 weeks and one day ago...which means you had your baby that day? or around that day? your baby doesn't look premature to me.
hm...something isn't adding up?
quoteposted 5th Feb '07
Yeah, and how do you have a good job at 16.....your story really doesn't add up to me.
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