re: Chit chat

LADIES PLEASE READ

I feel really bad if some of you took it that I didn't want the new TTCers posting in here, because that is so not the case. It just hurt me to see that a lot of the regulars have quit posting b/c they feel as if they get ignored or just simply don't feel comfortable posting in here anymore which is not how things should be. We all or were all here for the same purpose and that was/is to achieve our goals of becoming pregnant. It just stinks sometimes when you get used to hearing from the same people all the time and how they are doing and then out of nowhere things just halt and ceace for a while. I don't want anyone to not feel welcome here whether you are an original TTCer or a new joining member you are ALL welcome here.

I may not answer all posts but I do try to help out the best way that I can. It makes me feel good when ladies trust in my advice enough to send me PM's requesting information or even just wanting to talk. I really have grown close with all of you ladies, and the new members I hope that we can make you feel as welcome as we were when we first joined.

TTC is never an easy thing, it's stressful and eventually takes over your mind and life. You become so wrapped up in wanting to see those pink lines and sometimes you just need a good friend who understands to talk to.

I apologize greatly if I perhaps came off as I didn't want new members here or that I didn't view the new ladies as being welcome b/c all the ladies here including myself are here to offer up any advice that we possibly can that will help each and everyone achieve their dreams. If I made you feel that way I am sincerely sorry from the bottom of my heart and hope that you know that myself as well as everyone else, original or new welcomes each member with open arms.

Quoting ♡ Lacey ♡:“ Haven't seen it yet. We watched that one movie "I konw who killed me" with Lindsey Lohan and it was pretty messed up, although she played the part rather well lol”

It's still in theaters. I am watching it on some site that records the movies at theaters. I'm not a fan of Lohan, but I might have to watch that movie.

Hi Ladies,
I am currently on CD8, gearing up for some major BDing for the next few days. I have not posted in a while..but here is the latest: Both my hubby and I got our fertility work up done and drum roll please...we are both good to go..so it is looking like it is a matter of time  
I, too, welcome all of the new ladies! I understand that this forum is growing..It is a good thing, but I do miss my ladies...It is nice of you Lacey to get this going. I am hoping more of us will start posting again and re-connecting. I love to keep tabs on everyone!
Good luck, ladies and babydust to all!!!! 2008 is our year!!!!

Quoting ♡ Lacey ♡:“ Kim in some means yes I have, I mean that is how I feel and we are allowed to voice how we feel. I ... [snip!] ... rather just keep it to myself, I seen what happened when I did that the last time and I dare not venture down that way again.”

You just ventured down that way... you always drag others into it with you... yet no one comes forward... go back and read through the grads.. no one ignores you... hell I have even gone on your other chit chat forum and talked to you there... I have never done anything to make you feel uncomfortable... and the grads has always been an open room... and as for all the other girls... I check the TTC room often to see how they are..

Do what you got to do to... but dont drag down the grads room! None of us have ignored you in anyway!

Quoting ♡ Lacey ♡:“ LADIES PLEASE READ I feel really bad if some of you took it that I didn't want the new TTCers posting ... [snip!] ... of my heart and hope that you know that myself as well as everyone else, original or new welcomes each member with open arms.”

Thanks Lacey  

My cat has a shaved butt!



Lol... he just got fixed and I picked him up and his poor little behind is shaved.....

Hello Sandi- I'm sorry I'm a slacker... somehting happens to my brian when I hit the post reply button- it forgets all the cool, interesting, witty things I had planned to say.... sorry

and Hello to you Mary- sounds promising with the OPK-I say keep on BDing and have fun doing it!  -
fingers crossed- best of luck to you....
alot of you ladies are very close in your cycles (at the fun bding part) so for all of you, I'm going to play a nice Barry White- Marvin Gaye medley to set the mood! 

How about this? the grads that do the grad room....do your thang....lacey...stay here. you have a right to be confortable where you post. I am probably too comfortable. lol


as for ps i love you...donielle wsa just talking to me abou thtat. i think i may rent it. can i? or is it in theaters?

as for mary's shaved butt. u are grody lol  

Quoting marywantsababynow!:“ My cat has a shaved butt! Lol... he just got fixed and I picked him up and his poor little behind is shaved.....”

okay just the opening line of that made me chuckle

Quoting Afloridacracker:“ Hello Sandi- I'm sorry I'm a slacker... somehting happens to my brian when I hit the post reply button- ... [snip!] ... cycles (at the fun bding part) so for all of you, I'm going to play a nice Barry White- Marvin Gaye medley to set the mood! ”

haha...preggo brain. that's ur excuse...whats mine??? hi!!! *waves* i was just teasing u. it's fun. I have this horrible problem....i inherited my dad's dry humor. lIke once I was cashiering at kmart and i scanned a thing of cookies. WEll i kinda tossed htem in the bag. and then it hit me. I looked up and said....I just tossed your cookies. lmao....oh im a dork

Quoting lifehappens-SANDI  :“ How about this? the grads that do the grad room....do your thang....lacey...stay here. you have a right ... [snip!] ... talking to me abou thtat. i think i may rent it. can i? or is it in theaters? as for mary's shaved butt. u are grody lol  ”

I am watching it online ;)

Yes, that was my goal... to make people laugh!!! Poor little kitty cat!

Quoting lifehappens-SANDI  :“ How about this? the grads that do the grad room....do your thang....lacey...stay here. you have a right ... [snip!] ... talking to me abou thtat. i think i may rent it. can i? or is it in theaters? as for mary's shaved butt. u are grody lol  ”

we have never made her feel uncomy in there... I still post in the TTC room as well... such a thing was made for posting prego things that I just dont anymore.

I miss the girls just as much as only one else... but I keep up with them I view their profiles check on them all... sooo if you didnt that know that now you do... I am a stalker.. hahahahaha

Stalker alert! Stalker Alert..... Lol.... Don't tell anyone, but I stalk too....

oops...  

Quoting ~Kim~ aka timba43:“ You just ventured down that way... you always drag others into it with you... yet no one comes forward... ... [snip!] ... to see how they are.. Do what you got to do to... but dont drag down the grads room! None of us have ignored you in anyway!”

First off I didn't say everyone in that TTC Grads forum, but also do take note to the fact that I already had started to venture out on my own before I even posted this. I didn't specifically say anyones name b/c I am not a name dropper, but do go back and read through this thread alone and see how many others have openly admited publically that they stopped posting b/c they feel like they are ignored or left out.

I never drag ANYONE into anything, I wouldn't step forward if others didn't feel that way, and who am I to post someone's PM (PRIVATE message) on here for everyone to see just to prove my point? I don't need to prove my point as I know what is said and what isn't said.

All I am saying is that I feel like sometimes my parade gets rained on when I post in there I mean I was extremely pumped when I came home from my NT scan b/c of what the u/s tech as well as myself seen and what our guesses where, I am fully aware that it was just a guess but why can't I just be induldged if I am wrong oh well it fun at least no harm no foul instead of saying "don't get too excited" I mean why can't I get excited I am going to be happy regardless of what sex this baby turns out to be so why can't I just have my moment just like everyone else? I really could keep going but again I am not going to drop any names and make anyone feel soley responsible. I simply stated that I didn't feel 100% comfortable posting there and have also discussed it with others as well long before this post was even made. I do feel that some of my posts go un-noticed or just get overlooked and I understand that that forum can go a bit quickly and everyones posts can't be seen all the time but I just don't feel comfortable. Have you noticed any of the newer women who got their BFP posting frequently in there?? No, you haven't and it's because they just don't feel like they belong so they just keep to themselves. IT isn't anyones fault persay but there is also nothing wrong with having a chit chat thread where everyone can post whatever they want regardless of whether it is a vent, question, concern, etc without worrying about someone getting upset.


So with that being said, if my feelings are ridiculous then I am sorry that you feel that way b/c others would certainly take your concerns or worries to heart and try to comfort you or fix them the best way possible. Also please take note to how many people have come out of the woodwork since the post was made, there has got to be something to it therefore adding more and more truth to the whole "being ignored or overlooked" idea that has been stated here. I don't want these ladies feeling like they can't post, or like their concerns are worthy of others opinions, it simply isn't fair. Your's and Melissa's feelings were taken into account when you requested the TTC Grads forum and your request was granted, maybe not it's own forum so to speak but you got your sticky that you wanted so that it would make you guys feel more comfortable, what is wrong with me doing this so that these ladies feel more comfortable again where they should have always felt comfortable since day 1 here on gaga??