Is he cheating

my baby father only comes see me on weekends and call whenever he feel like it , never goes to my doctor appointments with me but he keep telling me that he be busy how can i just leave him alone without getting the baby involved?

hunni i dunno wut to tell u cuz im in a simular situation but only you can decide when youve had enough!   i hope everything works out for u!

Quoting baseema4:“ my baby father only comes see me on weekends and call whenever he feel like it , never goes to my doctor ... [snip!] ... appointments with me but he keep telling me that he be busy how can i just leave him alone without getting the baby involved?”

He is undoubtably cheating

sorry to be so blunt but he probably is cheating or he doesnt care aboutu the way you want him to

thank u for being very honest with me

Suggestion: Contact CHEATER (the tv show) and let them investigate it. It sounds likely that he is, OR doesn't want to be involved with you... and if he's NOT involved with you(meaning, not in a relationship), then he's technically not cheating.

Quoting baseema4:“ thank u for being very honest with me”

good luck tho honey!! i hope hes different and really is telling the truth!

Baby father?  

Quoting baseema4:“ thank u for being very honest with me”

I'd cheat on you too

Quoting Lisa..We're having a litt:“ Suggestion: Contact CHEATER (the tv show) and let them investigate it. It sounds likely that he is, OR ... [snip!] ... be involved with you... and if he's NOT involved with you(meaning, not in a relationship), then he's technically not cheating.”

i love that show... and if u really do do it i would love to see the cheating bastard get caught or for him to come out completely clean!! either way!

what do i do?

Quoting *Arrogant Erica*:“ I'd cheat on you too”

      

Quoting baseema4:“ what do i do?”

Oh, I don't know... leave his stanky ass.

I mean... no, stay with him. He sounds like a charmer.

Quoting Waitin For My Baby:“       ”

I thought we were being honest here

Quoting baseema4:“ my baby father only comes see me on weekends and call whenever he feel like it , never goes to my doctor ... [snip!] ... appointments with me but he keep telling me that he be busy how can i just leave him alone without getting the baby involved?”

It sounds like he only sees you when he's convenient and that's not right, especially since you are carrying his child. He should respect you as he would like people respecting his own mother.

Have you tried talking to him? Maybe this whole pregnancy thing kind of scares him a little - men can be babies in that sense and freak out a lot over everything that requires commitment for the most part. Just listen to what he has to say and don't tell him ahead of time that you want to talk to him- he MAY blow you off....just wait until he's around you and you're both calm. Ask him and be direct then listen and don't say a word until he's done or he will shut down and you will never get anything ou tof him. As he needs to remember that you are the mother of his baby and he needs to respect you, you have to do the same for him and remember he's your baby's father. I'm not saying you disrespect him, but be the better person in this situation. Your child will respect you more for setting a better example. Good luck with this and keep us posted!