I hope this is ok..

I am not sure if I can post here, as I myself have never suffered a loss, but I just felt so overwhelmed as I read this forum. The pain is unimaginable. I can't express how sorry I am that all of you had to deal with such tragedy in a time that should be bountifull in joy. I just..I don't know. I can't put it in words. You are some of the strongest people Ihave ever seen. If I had such a tragic even I surley would be on the next flight to hevean to be with my baby. Again, I apologize if this is out of line but I am so overwhelmed with emotion that I just had to let you all know how much I am amazed with your strength and in pain for your loss. I hope you don't condem me for not truley knowing how it is. I am so sorry for all of your losses and will pray for your Angels.

You are a very sweet person and it is so lovely that you can have words of kindness for others. Thankyou for being such a caring person  

I was thinking that same thing this morning as i was looking at all the previous posts..I can't even imagine..

i always think that too. i cant even imagine, and i dont try to act like i know how it feels, because i dont. and i feel like its not fair that these beautiful women lose such beautiful babies. im so sorry, and i admire how strong u all are too, because like mommytootoo said "If I had such a tragic even I surley would be on the next flight to hevean to be with my baby". i just dont know how you gals do it.

thank you for your words and prayers..I think we all need them in here. I hope and pray that you or anyone else never has to go through what the ladies in here have.

Thanks for your kind words. I just wanted to say that we who have lost babies are only strong enough to go on after this because we have to. I hope this is appropriate to say, but after I got through the initial shock of RavenBethany's death, I was relieved for her, because she doesn't have to go through burying her children, she got to go with them.

Quoting northwind:“ Thanks for your kind words. I just wanted to say that we who have lost babies are only strong enough ... [snip!] ... death, I was relieved for her, because she doesn't have to go through burying her children, she got to go with them.”

i can see how terrible that sounds on paper, but seriously, i couldnt handle burying my children, especially most of them. i know it has to be hard for the rest of the family, but man, i understand what you're saying.

I just think it's sad that god see's fit to take so many..i know there is a bigger plan, but that would be the hardest thing to ever have to go through.

Thanks for posting this- it's been hearder than I ever imagined! But I know my babies are in a much better place. I wish no-one had to go through the pain of losing a baby!  

That is very sweet... I don't think anyone would be at all offended by your post...

Just like Melissa said, we only go on because we have too. I couldn't imagine my bf suffering the loss of our son and then me..
I think of anyone in the Griffin family, I feel the worst for her husband... Not only does he have to bury his wife, but his children.
It's like that poem,

When a child loses a parent they are called an orphan.
When a woman loses her husband she is called a widower.
When a husband loses his wife he is a widow.

There is no name for a parent who loses a child... That how awful the pain is...


I think it's shown all of us that we're not the exception... Bad things can happen to anyone, and you need to appreciate any time you have with people you love (so cheesy, I know!).

Ok, I'm done rambling for the day...  
- Jess

Aww that was so sweet, thanks for posting that!! Like Jess said, I highly doubt anyone would be offended by your kind words!!