re: Single moms

I was with my ex for 5 years...

He never showed interest in me while I was pregnant, and after Damien was born I had an episiotomy and my stitches tore so I was in agony for ages afterwards, sex was a no-go, even though I tried to make the effort for Daniel...

He broke up with me on the 4th November last year saying he didnt love me anymore because we hardly spoke (he was too interested in his fucking Xbox360) and we hardly had sex (Excuse me, I had HIS baby 7 months ago at this point!)

So he threw me out 2 days later, and I had to get on a train with all of my and Damiens belongings 190 miles away to where my parents live, and sleep in their dining room for 2 weeks while they sorted out their tiny little computer room for me and Damien to squeeze into.

What makes it worse is I find out a week later he's moved in his ex whobroke me and Daniel up for about a year, who has his other son (she left it til I was 6 months pregnant to tell him about him!) and he swore blind that he didnt want anything to do with either of them because he didnt believe Ruben was his. So now that bitch is living in my flat, where I still have quite a few belongings, he doesnt want to pay maintenance (ive contacted CSA) yet still expects to have him a week a month?!

Im furious, I dont want that slag anywhere near my son, she's a home wrecker. She broke Daniel and I up once before saying they were cheating when all he did was kiss her; just to get her hands on him. They dated for about a year, she cheated on him, Dan and I got back together and then this.

Im so hurt/angry. I just dont know whether im coming or going most days.

single mommy to be here too.

I will be a single mom. First baby too. We can do it ladies.

Single mom here... As my mom "lovingly" refers to the dad... "Sperm donor" lives in a town 30 mins away and is dating a much younger girl. Needless to say, the baby won't have his last name and his girlfriend will NOT be there.

Quoting MaybeMayBaby:“ Single mom here... As my mom "lovingly" refers to the dad... "Sperm donor" lives in a town 30 mins away ... [snip!] ... and is dating a much younger girl. Needless to say, the baby won't have his last name and his girlfriend will NOT be there.”

LOL ... my mom calls my baby's father the sperm donor too.

I am a single soon to bemommy too! I have been in love with the dad for six years. I even married someone else but when it was all said and done with I ran back to baby daddy. He just doesn't feel the same way about me I think this is one of the hardest things I have ever done. I am so excited to be a mommy but I feel like I cheated my son because he isn't going to have a mommy and daddy that love each other. Am I the only one that has a baby daddy that cares about the baby but not you?

Quoting sodapopsweet:“ aww dont be scared its fun being a mommy”

well i like taking care of people but i havent had a mom in my life so i know nothing and im sooo bored here i live in alittle town i do work at home for school all alone and i have nothing to do i have like 8 more days im excited but alittle worried

Single mommy of one soon to be two here. Bored to death in Maryland.