re: '08 September Babies Group

Quoting Hunter's Mommy 2 Be:“ Just had a quick question! Today I went to my appt and everything looks good! But I have recently started ... [snip!] ... I have recently started having cramping on the sides of my stomach and my back is starting to hurt! What do you think this is?”

It's normal... my dr told me it completely normal to start getting some cxns after 30 weeks as long as it's not more that 4-6 an hour.

Yep contractions. I get them too. They are a pain in the butt

THats what that is though? it kind of hurts a little

Quoting Deena's Mommy:“ Yep contractions. I get them too. They are a pain in the butt”

Ya think it's a pain in the butt now, wait till the full time ones kick in... LOL.

Quoting Cupcake1013 *FGG*:“ Ya think it's a pain in the butt now, wait till the full time ones kick in... LOL.”

lol I know. One of my friends who's son just turned one said "Believe me, you will want meds. You think those hurt..." Oh fun fun fun. They didn't really hurt it was more of a discomfort and my mom saying over and over "Is everything ok? do you need to go to L&D? " lol I would probably have been fine, gotten on my hands and knees and rocked back and forth. lol I was about to, too

Hey ladies...how is everyone doing? Better then me I hope...I'm suppose to be having my baby shower this Saturday...invites are out and I have people coming to the shower but come to find out the lady that is suppose to be doing the shower for me hasn't returned any of my phone calls for the past week. I've been trying to make sure that she is still doing the shower and she's not returning my phone calls or text messages to let me know if she is going to still do the shower or not. So I'm now sitting here freaking out cause I don't know if she is still gonna do the shower or if she is going to flake on me... I'm gonna have it no matter what even if I have to throw the shower myself. Which I have started planning even though right now I don't have hardly any money to pay for the shower. But I think I can do a semi decent baby shower for less then 50 bucks but when we get back into town dh is going to stop by her house and see if he can find out if she is still going to do the shower or not. On top of that I just found out today that my old doctor in Sheridan cancelled the rest of my appointments and now I don't get to have the u/s that I was suppose to have tomorrow. So I'm so pissed about that now I have to wait until my new doctor does the u/s on the 31st. It seems like nothing can go right anymore. We were hoping to leave and go back to Sheridan tonight but can't get ahold of my friend that we are going to stay with to find out if it is ok if we come over today instead of tomorrow. She gets bad anxiety and wasn't having a very good day earlier so she probably silenced her phone. So of course she isn't answering and I'm getting frustrated about everything right now and of course it doesn't help that lately I have been having TONS of back pain that just doesn't go away and I haven't been sleeping very well lately either. Well trying to get ahold of my friend again...talk to you all later...

April

hey lady's been busy at other posts but i didn't forget about you guys!!!

story of the day i went to the bath room at my shop looked down and saw a freakin tranchula!!! yea! no joke! so creepy!!!!!! the guy i work with caught him and took him home to his kidlets lol! his wife is going to freak!

Quoting paulettelee:“ Hi everyone..I have been lurking since my post to see if anyone had answered my 3d 4d ? well I got my ... [snip!] ... all suck and they are not allowed to print genital sono pics. Heres one of the lil joker sleeping. I can't wait to see him”

Even though he's sleeping that's still a great picture  

I just love that I can come on here and everyone of you are feeling the same way I am- achey, crampy, sore, swole, tired, anxious.... All the things we are SUPPOSED to be feeling but no one other than other preggos understand!

I am def close now! I was having the worst most painful pains today the contractions right along with them. They felt as bad as the real ones i had as i was pushing out my daughter~~~The worst ever!

And I got super pissed at the husband because I told him where I put something he was looking for and of course he didn't even look there till after everywhere else, so I had to get up and look for myslef because he couldn't find it and it was right where I told him in the first place!

Then, he went off on where I put it like it was a dumb place for it to be and that is why he didn't look there! He was trying to be funny and when it worked I got more mad at him because laughing hurt so bad i started crying!!!!

In past pregnancys I have had so many 'false' runs to the hossy that i have literally been yelled at bu nurses and told that unless my water breaks or I am bleeding or passing out, it isn't labor yet, so i have learned to try and make it go away myself. I have had too many for them to be nice and understanding the way they are with alot of you!

They act like I am a big baby who should know what to expect and that if I didn't want to go through it I shouldn't keep having them! Grrrrr, But the pint is, I know how bad it gets for me before I go in for the big thing so I know it isn't going to be long based on that.

My hubby is really pissing me off because even though he has been through the way I labor three times already, he still is stupid enough to say shit like "It will probably still be 8 to ten more weeks" and "this will be the one where you go over due!" Like I have no idea how it feels and shit!!!! Like I don't totally know my body and how it is acting, and he just dismisses what I tell him about it!

HE SHOULD BE GETTING FRICKING PREPARED!!! comforting me like it could be any day now because it could for me and I am afraid because it is still ealry and even if he goes another four or five weeks and everything is fine, he should still try to assure me that it will be okay incase it doesn't!!! Not dismiss my anxiety like I am an idiot who has no idea about what is going on!!!

AND then last night, i mad a FANTASTIC Turkey, duck and chicken stew out of that meat we had left over. It had chinese veggies and huge home made dumplings and everything, simmered for nine hours!!! I also made home made chocolate chip peanut butter cookies with cinnamon cream sandwhiched between them for him!

He calls me and says they are making him work lat! That is fine, i know he has no control over that so i tell him that if it is too late and I need to go to sleep that it is in the fridge for him, you know, so he knew he had a hot home ooked meal waiting so he would feel better about having to work a little longer because there would be a light at the end of crap tunnel!!!

I wake up when he comes home and show him whre everything is and he says he might cook up some hanburgers instead!!!!!!!!!!!!I started to flip out! After all that in my condition, just to be nice when he knew that menat over a hot stove and up and down all day, he is going to make a fucking burger instead, like that could even come close to what I made for him??!!!! Luckily, he saw his mistake quickly and had my food but still, It was really good and I know he prefers beef over poultry but he asked me to make that out of the meat!!!!! I was so hurt and felt so unappreciated!

Then he says he wanted reg choc chip cookies not peanut butter!!!!!! As he eats half a dozen of them!!!!!!! MEN ARE SO ANNOYING!!!

At leeast he gave me a little today before work! I was trying for it last night but he was too tired! Grrrr

And then, to continue this hugely long rant, Our toilet is acting up today. It is taking like an hour to fill up in the back before it flushes! There isn't anything clooging it so I don't know what the hell that is,. I hope the kids didn't try to flush something down it! They would never tell me if they did!!! Grrrr

Well, thanks for listening.....grrr I am just so annoyed with stuff! and I am in soooooo mmuch pain! I can't wit till Ozzie is here so i can start to feel better again!

Sorry... I need to vent... I apologize ahead of time if this ends up long...

First a little bit of background info.... Justin and I arn't exactly two of a kind... we're quite the opposite. I was always the shy one nobody really liked and he was the popular one fighting people off just for an inch of space. Although we share some friends from before we met, I lost contact with most of them while he kept it. Well, now that we're together most of his friends have quit coming around, and I know it's because of me. They tend to say I'm a bitch andd they don't like that. Justin is easily pushed around, and I'm not. So in the past 3 years I've felt more alone that ever because nobody ever calls me, visits, nothing. Meanwhile all his friends are trying to get him to go here, do this, do that, and get mad at me when he doesn't.

Well... we all know that I've been put back on strict bed rest. It's not fun, and I hate it, but I do it for the sake of Lessa. We have one couple that we usually do hang out with (I'm sure I've brought them up before) but since the scare last week I haven't gone over there for 2 reasons. 1) I can't be comfortable as far as the terms of bed rest and 2) they have a 2 year old that they basically cannot control. She constantly climbs on me, throws toys at me, and doesn't understand that I can't do these things, and they do NOTHING to help the situation.

Well apparently Justin never told them why I haven't been over there. So tonight I get a message online telling me that I'm doing the wrong thing by obeying what the dr said and that I should quit being so lazy and get up and walk because I'm going to regret it during labor and delivery. WTF!!!! He said that his wife has had 4 kids and she had cxns all during the 3rd trimester, and that if I was really that bad off they would have kept me in the hossy.

I feel like I'm having to argue with the only friends we have left because Justin refuses to stand up for me and then everyone gets mad at me because he doesn't tell them the whole story. I'm not keeping him from them... he chooses to stay here, but he doesn't tell anyone that. He uses me as an excuse to not do anything because he says that if he goes he feels bad because I'm stuck here.

I have never felt so alone in my entire life. Why should I have to defend my pregnancy to someone?? Why should I have to be the bitch because some people are so thick headed???

Hello mommies... I JUST got off work! I am so freaking tired, we were SO busy. I mean crazy busy I didn't know what to do with myself.

I talk to Ali and the last text she sent me was "Sitting on the floor in my baby room looking at all her stuff. I'm freezing to death, still have no clothes or socks. LOL"

So she is IN!!! God I'm so freaking happy for her!!!! She deserves this more then anything.

So I walk through the door and Chris is on the couch watching TV. I kinda told him about my night and how busy we were and that I made like $200 which isn't bad for a Wed. night. And he is like "yeah that's cool" so I asked him if he was stressed and he said "yeah like always" HE HAS NO REASON TO BE STRESSED!!! The only reason he freaks is because he is a private contractor and maybe one day he might not have work. But not anytime soon... and we would be fine for a little while if something like that were to happen. He always has to kill my buzz! Whateverrrr...

So my goal for Tues-Fri & Sun. was $300.. and I have $247! (I set my goals short so when I make more then that I am way happier haha)

Well I'm going to go and take a shower and get ready for bed. I have a doctors appt. at 8:20 tomorrow, I am going to be dead tired. I have to work again from 2-11! Lets pray it's another night like tonight!!!

Belly Rubss!!

Quoting Cupcake1013 *FGG*:“ Sorry... I need to vent... I apologize ahead of time if this ends up long... First a little bit of background ... [snip!] ... should I have to defend my pregnancy to someone?? Why should I have to be the bitch because some people are so thick headed???”

I would tell those "friends" to go F*** themselves!!!!! How dare they try to tell you how you should handle your pregnancy. Let me tell you if my doctor told me to stand on my head for an hour a day to help my baby I sure as hell would. Self-indulgent people like that piss me off.
Oh and BTW tell Justin to grow a pair and stick up for his woman once in awhile!!

Quoting Cupcake1013 *FGG*:“ Sorry... I need to vent... I apologize ahead of time if this ends up long... First a little bit of background ... [snip!] ... should I have to defend my pregnancy to someone?? Why should I have to be the bitch because some people are so thick headed???”

Umm assholes? How about tell her that when she can control her two year old then maybe you can come over and relax. You don't need to defend yourself, it's your body, your baby. Every one is different. Urgh what a bitch.

Quoting Tara-Kieran's Mommy:“ I would tell those "friends" to go F*** themselves!!!!! How dare they try to tell you how you should ... [snip!] ... Self-indulgent people like that piss me off. Oh and BTW tell Justin to grow a pair and stick up for his woman once in awhile!!”

I pretty much told the "friend" that I know my body and what I've gone through before and I'm too early to be trying to encourage labor. I think that pissed him off cuz he quit messaging me.

And that's one of the things Justin and I fight about the most. He lets people push him around so much. That's about the ONLY reason I'm happy he lost his job, because now his boss can't do it anymore, and she would do it on purpose cuz she knew he wouldn't say anything about it. I'm sure once Kassi goes to bed words will be exchanged tonight.

Quoting maegenn:“ Umm assholes? How about tell her that when she can control her two year old then maybe you can come ... [snip!] ... come over and relax. You don't need to defend yourself, it's your body, your baby. Every one is different. Urgh what a bitch.”

Oh... it wasn't the wife... it was the hubby... Like he has any room to talk from watching labor, not going through it. And his wife had it easy... In 3 kids she had a TOTAL of 5 hours a labor....