TMI after baby sex issues
posted 28th Dec '07
ok i guess this is a little weird but now that we have baby here and all i really dont want to get preggers again so soon (maybe in 7 years after i forget the tramatizing pain lol) but my hubby always finds that when he uses condoms he cant feel ANYTHING. this is kinda killing our sexual relationship because i feel like im not satisfiying him. im not on any form of birthcontrol yet and still havent decided what kind of birthcontrol would be best (i suck at taking pills and im terrified of needles so those options are out lol )
so do any of you girls have any possible solutions to mproblems and maybe any good suggestions for what kind of birthcontrol works best
quoteposted 28th Dec '07
nuva ring.
lol not needles or pills.
it justslids up your whoohaw and presto.
or the patch.
its applied every week and isjustas effective, i recommend the firstthop i heardsomewierdo stories about the patch and periods.
quoteposted 28th Dec '07
I cant take BC pills they make me sick (I have been on 15+ different kinds/levels), the shot messes my body up and makes me crazy & I did the patch too it made me really sick. The patch is bad news. Read up on the info for it, but I believe that it ended up causing a lot of women to get sick. Get some info on an IUD or some call it an IUC, they insert it up your vajay they are good for 5 years and can be removed whenever you want. I would do one but my husband and I are going to TTC soon.
quoteposted 28th Dec '07
k thnx girls i think the whole IUD thinger sounds liek the best choice for me
quoteposted 30th Dec '07
Id like to try that Merana thing or whatever....anyone know how much it costs or if insurance will cover it...i dont plan on having a kid for a long long time
quoteposted 30th Dec '07
the Nuva ring works really well. The only thing is that if you are breastfeeding you can't use it cause of the estrogen in it. The only ones that you can use if you are brestfeeding are Paragaurd, Manera, the mini pill, and the Depo shot. Paragaurd and Manera are IUC and one is in there for up to 5 years and the other is in for up to 10.
quoteposted 31st Dec '07
I'm tryin to decide on my form of BC right now for my post delivery days...not that I'll have to worry about gettn any action for a while with hubby being shipped to the Sandbox til Jan '09, nevertheless...i wanna be ready when he gets home!! lol...
I was on the shot pre-preggers...and here I am....36weeks with baby! lol...didnt work so well for us. lol... I dont really wanna take the pill either cuz im so sick of taking pills, with my prenatals and B6 supplements everyday for the last 8mos lol.
I've heard a lot of people who swear by the Nuva ring, so that may be an option 4 u. Im just not too keen on much being shoved into my Vajayjay that isnt attached to my hubby...lol sorry TMI, nevertheless...
I think Im gonna go with the patch. Once a week, that's it, and it's supposed to be just as effective as the rest.
Let me know what you decide! Might help with my decision!!
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