TMI after baby sex issues

ok i guess this is a little weird but now that we have baby here and all i really dont want to get preggers again so soon (maybe in 7 years after i forget the tramatizing pain lol) but my hubby always finds that when he uses condoms he cant feel ANYTHING. this is kinda killing our sexual relationship because i feel like im not satisfiying him. im not on any form of birthcontrol yet and still havent decided what kind of birthcontrol would be best (i suck at taking pills and im terrified of needles so those options are out lol )

so do any of you girls have any possible solutions to mproblems and maybe any good suggestions for what kind of birthcontrol works best?

Do your Kegels  
and you could always use the path, the little 5 year thing (they put it in there to clogg you tubes temporarily, I would never do this, but just as a solution for you), or you could use the ring or something.

Get an IUD, patches, BC Pills.....

what about a IUD, i think you can choose one for up to 5 years, ask your dr.

ok thnx girls i'll defiantly look into the IUD thinger , only a week and a half unitl i tlak to my dr all make sure i bring it up to him 

i have an IUD and it works for me, and plus i don't get my period so i can't have sex whev ever. lol =D

i am on the shot and i am also terrified of needles. but i always freak myself out before the shot, and to tell you the truth, you dont even feel it. i promise. but something you might want to try is an IUD.
sounds like that would be a great option, but i am just so scared because i know that it hurts but i have heard that its very effective.
if your b/f really respects you then he would understand your actions. i dont blame you. i have heard that you are very fertile after you have a baby so, dont even try to take a chance.
wait on the bc and sit your b/f down and tell him why you are scared about getting preggers again. you shouldnt have very much longer until you can start on bc because at my 8 weeks PP check-up thats when i got my shot.
hope it helps girl.  

well my bf understands pretty well about the whole thing but guys will be guys lol.
i was just tlking to my bfs mom and she said that IUD's hurt like hell to get, anyone know?

Quoting ♥My Lil Princess:“ well my bf understands pretty well about the whole thing but guys will be guys lol. i was just tlking to my bfs mom and she said that IUD's hurt like hell to get, anyone know?”

yeah it hurts like a bitch!