boyfriend problems! please give advice

My mood swings are awful and my boyfriend just makes it worst. When im crying like because of something that happend between me and my parents he just gets frustrated and says call me back later. or he gets mad at me cause of what they said. is itfair for him to get mad at mewhenim not feeling happy?When i complain about going to work (im 15) hes like you'll be okay and just like hangs up. also... different subject but im scared hes not gonna help support, hes 17 and wont go get a job. ive tried to talk about all this with him but he just changes the subject, what should i do? please help!

he sounds like a dead beat to me... maybe u should find someone else, i assume u deserve better...

Quoting Cadie:“ My mood swings are awful and my boyfriend just makes it worst. When im crying like because of something ... [snip!] ... wont go get a job. ive tried to talk about all this with him but he just changes the subject, what should i do? please help!”

try talking to him about it. &let him know that your hormones are all weird right now ; so that's your excuse for being extra emotional. if he isn't going to be supportive of your emotions then he's a retard.

Girl going to tell you now been there and seen it soooooo many times,get prepared to take care of this child on your own, there is not a mature 17 year old out there. sorry to be blunt and yes it hurts but that is all you can do, take care of yourself and do everything in your power to get prepared for a rough road ahead. He obviously is not a good person to talk to, if you want to make him wonder just say nothing at all, take your wories to someone who cares and say nothing to him about them or anything else, if he is showing he does not care then show him that you do not care to try and make him care, all he is doing is stressing you more and that is something you definetly do not need right now. Tracie

i mean i love him. im happy with him. i dont wanna be with someone else. but hes just sooo not understanding. he honestly needs to grow up. i did try talkin to him and he said "hes tired of tryin to make me happy"

Whats the problem that he doesn't have a job? He's 17 right? At that age my nephew was holding down 2 jobs and going to school (he has no children). Will your family be there to help support you and the baby if the father isn't there?
Yes and prepare to do it by yourself, my son's father left when our son turned 2 1/2 and just came back into his life less than a year ago.

Quoting Cadie:“ i mean i love him. im happy with him. i dont wanna be with someone else. but hes just sooo not understanding. ... [snip!] ... sooo not understanding. he honestly needs to grow up. i did try talkin to him and he said "hes tired of tryin to make me happy"”

he might be scared && i denial... maybe he justneeds some time to gtet over the shock...

uhhh i cant imagine raisin a baby by myself. i mean my family is soooo supportive. but im scared that if we dont stay together everyone is going to be like i told you so.
also it seems like im always calling him. ive tried not calling him but i just give in. i hate it. i wish i was stronger to make him realize everyhting

forget shock hunny back up and close him out see what happens he will miss you and come runnung and if he doesn't then he was not ment to be.

every woman has the strenth in him if you let them treat you this way what is that showing him.

Quoting LittleBit_o_this:“ every woman has the strenth in him if you let them treat you this way what is that showing him.”

Yes I agree...and don't think so negative about what your family will say. Do the best you can b/c 9 out of 10 times the mother is ALWAYS stuck raising the baby alone. You can do it!

Quoting ciera arrived 7 weeks ear:“ Well hun when i was pregnant with my daughter an was havin a bad day my fience who is 29 an im 28 would ... [snip!] ... with you being so young. Look into it ok. An if you need to talk or have more questions send me a message> est of luck hun.”

thanks! oh and lol im sure hes the dad. hes the only guy ive been with. and im on wic.

Quoting Cadie:“ i mean i love him. im happy with him. i dont wanna be with someone else. but hes just sooo not understanding. ... [snip!] ... sooo not understanding. he honestly needs to grow up. i did try talkin to him and he said "hes tired of tryin to make me happy"”

leave his ass.

Quoting LittleBit_o_this:“ Girl going to tell you now been there and seen it soooooo many times,get prepared to take care of this ... [snip!] ... try and make him care, all he is doing is stressing you more and that is something you definetly do not need right now. Tracie”

I'm very sorry, I know it's your opinion but I'm one of those muture 17 year olds my fiancee was one of those muture 17 year olds. . . .