pregnant again when my baby is just 4 months old
posted 22nd Dec '07
is there anyone out there that had or is having a baby back to back like me?
on dec 16th last year i took a test and found out i was pregnant with my little girl..and this year on dec 16th my period was 4 days late and i was messing around and i took a test...and ill be damned.....i got two lines....well i didnt believe it...so i took a digital and sure enough i am pregnant again...lol
for some reason i am overwelmed with how i should feel...my bf didnt treat me right during my pregnancy..such as verbal and emotional abuse..and now i had a break from it for a tad bit...and im not saying its stopped but we have been having serious issues for two months now....and i just dont know how i should feel right now about being pregnant again....and now i just went back to work and stuff...and im about 5 weeks pregnant....
my conception date for my baby now was nov 10th..and now im pregnant and i conceived on nov 11th....lol...so i guess ill be having another august baby eh?...except with my baby girl i was overdue by 7 days....and i was induced twice..the first time didnt work on just being overdue by two days...on the 7th day i didnt have a water to break and i had 16 hrs to deliver naturally and i gave birth on the 15th hour....naturally...no drugs...not nothing....
8lbs 2oz and 21 inches long...and now shes 18lbs 1 oz and 27 inches long
shes my pride and joy...and i love her so much!!! but i cant grasp being pregnant again....
quoteposted 22nd Dec '07
Wow, what a shocker, and such a blessing too!
quoteposted 22nd Dec '07
Well, yeah it's a lil too close but it's ok more joy in your family! Congrats!
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Iowaposted 22nd Dec '07
well, your babies will be close. so thats good.
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Ohioposted 22nd Dec '07
awwwwwwwwwww congrats.....im not axualy having one but i did hav a scare tho..n me n my fiancee r talkin bout haven another one within the next few months!!!
quoteposted 22nd Dec '07
well congrats! its a little too soon but you should be fine!
quoteposted 22nd Dec '07
Congrats hun! Give it a little bit of time, and it will sink in. I'm sure you will be just as excited about this one as you were about the first one! You will have two very close siblings and that will be great!
quoteposted 23rd Dec '07
I am in the same position you are too! I had my daughter Oct. 4th and had a period november and was a wk late in dec. so I ran and got a pregnancy test..ok I got 3 bc the 1st one I had gotten was a really light 2nd line...but yep its positive. So that would make me 5 1/2 wks pregnant. I really don't know how to feel. I guess I'm more scared than i was with my 1st? how are you feeling?
quoteposted 23rd Dec '07
congrats! my grandma had 5 kids.. the first two have the same birthday just a year difference and the 3 and 4 kids birthdays are 1 day apart 1 year apart!
pretty amazing! it will be work, but so worth it!
quoteposted 23rd Dec '07
Congrats!!! You can do it, believe me...it will be tough with them being so close together, and you'll have to learn to juggle two babies, but it's sooo worth it. I have 4 month old twins, and I wouldn't trade it for the world :]
quoteposted 23rd Dec '07
good luck with that
quoteposted 10th Mar '08
I'm 9w preg with #2 and #1 is barely just turned 10m. Thats a bigger gap then 4 months, but I was feeling pretty over whelmed too, and it's NORMAL. You'll love this baby just as much as your little girl. But the most important thing right now is to take SUPER good care of yourself by eating healthy, taking a prenatal, and getting yourself some good emotional support. First babies are hard on a relationship, and having 2 so close is going to be really straining so make sure you have a great network of family and friends to support you through your pregnancy and help you out when the newbie comes. Good Luck!
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