okay... so my husband and i have a 3 year old- 4 in Feb and a almost 3mth old daughter.... we can afford to have more children so thats not the question.... my question is: in your opinions, should we go for one more baby to make our family of 4 a family of 5 or stop now since we already have 1 boy and 1 girl?????? Thanks so much!

Its as many as you feel you can deal with in the end haha. My ma did the boy girl thing. But as I have two stepboys and my baby is going to be a girl, we may have a fam of6 with me trying for a boy next.

I think it really just depends on what you and your hubby want. My hubby and I really want 4 kids, although we aren't sure if it's going to happen... I only have my right tube. I say go for it unless you really don't want to!!

That's something that you and your husband should discuss...
I think it totally depends on what the two of you want.

If you both want a bigger family and can afford it, why not?

thank you both soo much!! i REALLY want 3- just because and my hubby wants to stop at 2 because we have one of each sex.... but i dont know- i just dont feel 100% complete yet, you know... after 3 i told him i would really be done... i cant see myself with more then that......

The only thing with three is that once you have three, you should really have four or someone will always be left out. It will always be 2 against 1. (There are 3 kids in my family...lol!)

never really took that in consideration...? guess i should. there are 7 in mine so i guess we all always had someone even though it was an odd number.... thank you for your opinion!

I have 2 girls and a boy...almost another boy....which completes my family...i agree with katesmama that 3 is well crazyyyyyyyyy and 4 isen't much more .....actually the oldest will be able to help you out...but if you are financially stable and you feel you want another one i would go for it...because if you dont you will gothrough life wishing you had....i love kids and i love a big family...what else are you suppose to do with your life??? Hope this helps 

See in 7 you probably always had at least one other sibling on your side. With three if the other two were ignoring you, it was no fun. The left out party wasn't usually the same person everytime, but there was usually someone. My mom was always saying she wished she had one more.

have as many as you can and want. I really think I only want 1 or 2 kids.My mom had 3 kid and it was fine.

i'd stop at one of each. that's what i'm doing atleast. but really its all up to you and what you can comfortably afford.

Quoting Tiffany - LogansMommy:“ I think it really just depends on what you and your hubby want. My hubby and I really want 4 kids, although ... [snip!] ... although we aren't sure if it's going to happen... I only have my right tube. I say go for it unless you really don't want to!!”

I only have my left, but even so, it only took us 3 months to conceive Caden.
You may just get there!

Out of curiosity, how did you lose yours?? I lost mine to a freak thing--I was 17 and in tons of pain. They thought it was the apendix--turned out an ovarian cyst had blooked blood flow to my tube, and it was dying--dead by the time they operated.

I thought I was unique in my missng part!