Quoting Mom of 2 Monkeys:" Please help me Im at the end of my rope, and I feel lost in my autism world. Cameron has been ... [snip!] ... i was talking to her and he was 2 rooms away. i've done nothing but cry the last 2 days because idk what to do anymore."
I am sorry. What about getting him checked by a doctor-could he have tummy pain, an earache, toothache, etc? I find taking the heel of my hand and massaging quite hard in Brady's middle back, and then a bit softer up his spine helps-idk? Also, and this is easier said than done, believe you me, but watch how you react to his outbursts and maybe log what happened before his tantrums-there may be something you can't see triggering it when you are so busy dealing with it. I feel for ya, really I do.