Why am i so mean?

Sometimes i feel like the stress is way to much for me to handle. I cant seem to let things roll off of my back anymore. It seems like i take everything i used to be able to take as a joke, way to seriously. My boss has sent me home, for having an unbearable attitude. I snap at everyone, including my babys father, who is too wonderful to me for me to be able to be so mean to him. I just cant help it. I dont understand why i cant seem to control my temper, or my attitude anymore. I work too much, and i know i do, but im trying to save up as much money as possible before the baby comes, and it never seems to be enough. That stresses me out too. I am not gaining nearly enough weight, and my doctor keeps pressing me about it. Thats also stressful. I need some way to make the stress disappear. Can anyone help me?

I know exactly how you feel. I am 14 weeks and all I do is snap at my DH every night. I really can't help with the how to take the stress off of you. I don't know how to take stress off of myself. I feel so horrible because my hunny works so hard just to support us and I'm just a stay at home mom and all I can do is get mad at him all the time. It sucks. But maybe eventually it will get better. There are aromatherapy ways to relieve stress. I know that much. Sorry for not so much help...

bah it totally sucks! i get so mad at my husband over stupid things like me being hungry or the tv being too loud. then when its time for bed im so stressed out that i end up just crying into his shoulder and i feel terrible. hes too great for me to be mean and i feel so incredibly guilty. just make sure he knows that your not intentionally trying to hurt him and that you want to control but just cant seem to. my stress and anger got a lot better after about 18 weeks...

I'm pretty good with the hubby and family, but dear god let a stranger make an off remark and he/she is THROUGH.

I'm a total bitch nowadays! I hate it! My boyfriend is wonderful and I treat him like crap. I even get an attitude with my best friend sometimes. And I cry afterwards too because I feel so horrible for treating my bf this way. This pregnancy has turned my world upside-down.

Quoting LadyLaLa:“ I'm a total bitch nowadays! I hate it! My boyfriend is wonderful and I treat him like crap. I even get ... [snip!] ... I cry afterwards too because I feel so horrible for treating my bf this way. This pregnancy has turned my world upside-down.”

Im with you girl... i feel horrible after for how i treat people who are only trying to help...i wish there was a magic cure for what my family is now calling "Pregnant bitch disorder"!

I know exactly how you feel...I actually posted a topic on it earlier too...called "hormones." I have been a crazy monster beast thing for the past couple of weeks. I find myself either screaming at people or just ignoring them completely because they ate the last bit of ice cream, or won't get off the computer when I need to log on to my baby-gaga website....just stupid things. But that make me get like red hot mad...seriously! I am on fire these days!

its ok. I SCREAM at my hubby about shit i cant even remember. like he took money out of pursefor lunch when he had a lunch in the fridge and i FREAKED out i went nutso and started screaming about how i cant deal with this anymore and i hated him. i mean him taking money without asking from me is something we've talked about before so i should be entiltled to be mad but i dont think that i shouldbe thatmad. i think i need mood stabilizers lol or to have a baby

Quoting Karen9192:“ its ok. I SCREAM at my hubby about shit i cant even remember. like he took money out of pursefor lunch ... [snip!] ... i should be entiltled to be mad but i dont think that i shouldbe thatmad. i think i need mood stabilizers lol or to have a baby”

lol....mood stabalizers would be nice right about now. My boss hates me, and my fiance is getting there. I feel bad for them. Adam understands for the most part though. He hold me while i cry at night for being so mean to everyone!

my hubby is named adam. but isuredont let him hold me at night if i cry. ever sincei got pregnant ive been like OBSSESSED with noone touching me. like even if they ask i stilldont want to andi always feel like diseased afterwards. im normally a germ hater but being pregnant i wont even let my hubby kiss me cuz hesfull of germs. ughhh i carry around a bottle ofanti bacterial and buy new ones almost every couple of days. i hate germs and germy people

Quoting Karen9192:“ my hubby is named adam. but isuredont let him hold me at night if i cry. ever sincei got pregnant ive ... [snip!] ... ughhh i carry around a bottle ofanti bacterial and buy new ones almost every couple of days. i hate germs and germy people”

oh my......im glad im not that afraid of germs....although i do catch myself sometimes running around work spraying random things with lysol.....i just cant help it... the slightest icky smell and i want to hurl, so i have my lysol with me all the time spraying mop buckets, and a grocery cart we use to bring the trash to the dumpster on the other side of our building....the trash cans, my desk....just everything!!!