Does anyone remember me? Need advice.

Hey I dont know if anyone is still on here that remembers me but let me update you guys. I had Alyssa on August 1st. I work for Bank Of America and through my whole pregnancy I was on the boards here telling you guys how horrible they were treating me. They wrote me up and told me they were going to fire me because I was put on bed rest, they told me I was going to the bath room way to much and it had to stop. After working there for over a year and never having a problem out of no where I was getting writen up for every little thing. My managers would tell me that my doctors appointments were inconvenient for our banking center and I had to find another time to make them. (Does anyone know doctor office hours?...ok and now what are Bank hours...??..Exactly) Well I could go on forever with the things they did to me but thats just a few things to start off with.
I just went back to work on Monday after being out for over 3 months. I really didnt want to but I couldnt find another job before I had to go back. Well now that Im back there is one of my coworkers that is pregnant now. Never been in trouble before...but all the sudden...guess what!? Shes being pulled to the back being told she needs to learn how to talk to people and told she needs to learn how to hold her urin and can't be going to the bathroom all the time!
I really want to go to a lawyer. I don't know if she will back me up because I think shes scared. She won't go to HR yet but I did tell her she needs to and that I did and they need to know so that they can know there is a pattern here.

So...I what should I do? Everyday I go there I want to cry. I really hate working there and it has really taken a toll on me. I cry every morning not because I have to leave my baby but because I have to leave my baby to go some where they wanted me to come in after being side swiped by a man that caused me to be hit by an 18wheeler and having my car split in 2. Instead of are you ok, they tell me well maybe you can come in tomorrow. I was 7months pregnant at that time.
What do I do? I really STILL want to go to a lawyer. Someone told me I still have up to 2 years to go talk to one and it hasnt even been a year yet. What should I do?

GO AND DO IT. and if you can get the other lady to back you up, then thats even better. i worked at aldo for a while.. and i had to leave. they were HORRIBLE to me because i was pregnant... honestly, do what you need to do.

I remember you!! Yes have her go to HR and make a complaint and see if she will back you up on the lawyer. They cant fire her for that or she will also have a cause to file suit (not like she doesnt now...)

They are some mean lil cocksuckers over there arent they?

MAybe next time you should put a lil Shug Avery pee in they glass and see how they like that! lol

Thank you. Im not sure if she will back me up because she doesnt want to cause to much trouble. But I heard them today with my own ears tell her YOU ARE GOING TO THE BATHROOM TO MUCH YOU NEED TO CONTROL THAT! I GOT SOOOOO MAD! I almost lost it infront of a coustomer! Instead I took a deeeeeep breath and helped my coustomer and gave him exactly what he needed instead even though I shouldn't have because he owes the bank money. I said screw BOA! Well I'll have to look in to how to go about getting the right lawyer.

Oh yea and just FYI, Ive been looking and applying for diffrent jobs every day. I went to school to become a medical assistant and Ive been applying all over the place. I have had a few interviews and more coming up in the next 2 weeks. So wish me luck girls!

Good luck on finding a different job some other place that will treat you with the respect you deserve.

Also good luck with finding a lawyer.

I know you said you weren't sure if the girl would back you up...doesn't hurt to try. At least let her know that you're doing what you're doing, if you feel comfortable to confide in her.

Let her know that in case she changes her mind, she should document everything so that she has it and let her also know she can come to you any time because you've been there before.

Doing that might just set her at ease a bit and make her want to back you up.

Quoting Angelsgirl515:“ Thank you. Im not sure if she will back me up because she doesnt want to cause to much trouble. But I ... [snip!] ... have because he owes the bank money. I said screw BOA! Well I'll have to look in to how to go about getting the right lawyer.”

you cant control your pee when ur pregnant! esp when the baby is playing pokey pokey with ur bladder lol.