re: leading by example

I agree, a majority of the teens who come on here are looking for support andanswers to questions they may not feel comfortableasking their doctor or friends and as such should be treated with the same respect afforded any one else coming on here looking for answers.Telling them to shut their legs when they are pregnantis a bit like shutting the gate*after* the horse has bolted. The minority who comeBG and abuse other members (as many other non teens do), and generally don't want to hear any advice or participate in discussionsshould perhaps just stick toTDC. (Not that there is any thing wrong with TDC as I have lurked there my self).
What I do get tired of seeing is I'm 14 and trying to conceive and then being told to get f**ked when suggesting that someone waits.....or why do I care... etc. It's pretty freakin obvious why I don't think a 14 yr old should try and concieve a baby.

Spelling mistakes and grammer errors (as long as it vaguly makes sense), I can handle, it's when people TaLk LiKe dIz, InIt.

i just want to say Thank you.
this had just happened to me and i was feeling put down to a simple question. when i said i might be pregant again they automaticaly jumped to conclusions and started making me feel way worse then i already do.
also about my writing i think that was a childish way to start drama. just because i write a certian way doesnt mean im a bad person or im just SOOO ignorent. thats not the point.
i wanted advice and they come at me making the whole post about the way i spell.
but Thank you again for making a post like this , i greatly appriciate it.

uoting →babymama←:“ i just want to say Thank you. this had just happened to me and i was feeling put down to a simple question. ... [snip!] ... at me making the whole post about the way i spell. but Thank you again for making a post like this , i greatly appriciate it.”

"im just SOOO ignorent"

That's spelled "ignorant".   Oh the irony...

People that can't even do simple smurf right like master their native language and have no disabling excuse for such failures are smurfing morons that have no intellectual future. But that's just my impression/opinion. You may think that the grammar Nazi stuff is childish, but the way you write is childish. You get what you give.

Quoting Leisurely Duchess:“ "im just SOOO ignorent" That's spelled "ignorant".   Oh the irony... People that can't even do ... [snip!] ... You may think that the grammar Nazi stuff is childish, but the way you write is childish. You get what you give.”

What the smurf , can't you move on with your life ! you dont know how to let go of the past or somthing. Damn and your talking about me, your acting like a smurfing stalker. i can't even go to another post and say Thank you with out you childish ass bullsmurf follows me ! Go the smurf away and have a nice life. Everyone is done with that grammer/spelling smurf and your still on it ! Chill out, i dont give a flying smurf about what you have to say cause all your doing is talking out your ass.
Buh Bye and have a nice life.

Quoting →babymama←:“ What the smurf , can't you move on with your life ! you dont know how to let go of the past or somthing. ... [snip!] ... dont give a flying smurf about what you have to say cause all your doing is talking out your ass. Buh Bye and have a nice life.”

Well, if you don't care about what others have to say about it, then don't write an emotional post about it. Cheerio!

ok dont laugh because im serious, I had my son at 17 so obviously I'm a teenmom but once i turn 20 will i still be a teenmom or just a mom? lol this is a serious question b/ i had him as a teen...

I agree with everything you've said. Even though I am a teen mom I've never got crap from ladies on here I think these teens just need to learn that feeding into the drama only makes things worse. If i don't like what someone has to say I ignore them. I remember before I became a mom I always fed into drama no matter what kind of drama it was onceI became a mom I realized how childish it was why waste my time on complete stupidity!? At the end of the day what did you accomplish?..Nothing your just proving everyone else right. If you want people to think differently prove them wrong! Show them you not another stupid teen who's small minded! Just thought I'd add my input.

Quoting love my Preston:“ ok dont laugh because im serious, I had my son at 17 so obviously I'm a teenmom but once i turn 20 will i still be a teenmom or just a mom? lol this is a serious question b/ i had him as a teen...”

You will always be a teen mom no matter what age you are if you had him at 17.
But when you're 20, you're an adult, you're just growing up, and your son is still alive so there's really no changing it.

so lets me ask a question please do you guys not likt teen mom or dont like teens mom who start drama on here im confused? sorry

Quoting Mara:“ we all know BG is a crazy place full of intelligent women (and a select few males) who, for the most ... [snip!] ... w/ knowledge and examples of what good parents do -- in every sort of situation, the better off the next generation will be.”

But I thought be critical, nasty and judgmental was going to make them un-pregnant and vicariously take back my stupid decisions too? Oh wait, what's this - I'm getting a news flash. I'm an adult loser who hangs out in teen forums just to make myself feel better. Damn. I better go get a life and a new hobby.

wow, this is ridiculous. teen mothers get enough chastising. it's not your place to tell them how much they smurfed up or how stupid they are. they're on here looking for support, don't bring em down because you're having a bad day& are overly judgemental.

I definitely wasn't bringing them down lol
i'm a teen mom myself
that was mainly to girls thinking about getting pregnant or trying to thinking its easy, girls not using condoms or on birth control
next time listen to the video
pls&thanku

ahhh sorry miscommunication. i didn't mean directly to you, just to anyone who calls them names and is rude without fair cause.

oooo ok =)
sorry
i pulled my guns out quick lol