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re: leading by example

posted 19th Jan
Quoting Mara:“ we all know BG is a crazy place full of intelligent women (and a select few males) who, for the most ... [snip!] ... w/ knowledge and examples of what good parents do -- in every sort of situation, the better off the next generation will be.”
Amen
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I have 1 child & live in Georgia
posted 19th Jan
Quoting Mara:“ we all know BG is a crazy place full of intelligent women (and a select few males) who, for the most ... [snip!] ... w/ knowledge and examples of what good parents do -- in every sort of situation, the better off the next generation will be.”
Yay  
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I have 1 child & live in North Carolina
posted 19th Jan
Quoting danieLV:“ Thank you, that REALLY needed to be said. I've had people talk crap to me, some even told me I wasn't ... [snip!] ... & that I didn't have a miscarriage in February cause the doctor didn't check inside of me. But once again. thanks  

What really annoys me is when people get advice and comments they don't like and assume its about their age instead of their actions, but I guess these misunderstandings will always happen.  
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I have 1 child & live in North Carolina
posted 3rd Feb
I agree with your every word and every sentence! It's been a bitter-sweet journey to see MANY of the "not-so-new" people blatantly criticize and ridicule other young pregnant moms. It's deteriorating the point of what Baby-Gaga stands for. I looked for a website to come to for months and immediately got attached to this one... So when you see a people judging others it makes you think twice about why you came here. I will say this.... If you do NOT have the patience to answer someone's question/post because of how "unintelligent" you think it may be, please exit the page immediately. The internet has changed a lot of the ways teenagers write, especially when they don't have adults to look up as role-models, which in turns, adapts them to writing "Why is this so hard?" to "y it gotta be so hard fo". It happens...so I give a million and eight kudos to the women who are kind enough to ignore that and help the ones seeking answers to their many questions. No one has the right to judge ANYONE!    
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I live in Rhode Island
posted 29th Feb



I do agree that these young girls need support. And it really saddens me to see the lack of maturity, intelligence (and I am talking very basics here), and disrespect for anyone but themselves that I see in so many posts. However, unless they ask an open question, I feel that our opinions are best left to ourselves. I think that we can be honest without being rude. Honesty can sometimes come out harsh, but that's for them to take in and ponder,not us. Yes these girls need support, but they also need to open their eyes to the reality of what they are really involved in. And I do think that if you have such a problem with their spelling/grammer then maybe you should PM them instead of making a big deal on their post.
Until they get a grip on thetruereality of the situations they are in, and us mature moms can show them that (in a mature manner) then nothing will change. If us older moms can't have the opportunity to guide these young girls in answering their questions and giving them a fresh perspective on reality- then I think that you are taking out a great part of what BG's forums are here for. We may not have internet addresses for our names, but we are good resources. So while being asked to respect the younger girls, I think in return they should be asked to respect the older ones as well.
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I'm due May 15th (a girl), have 1 child & live in Texas
posted 7th Mar
My goodness everyting you stated in here i was trying to say ina different forum the other day and its all true thoose are the reasons we come here ( :
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I'm due June 19th (a girl) & live in Virginia
posted 11th Mar
I agree =]
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I have 1 child & live in Connecticut
posted 17th Apr
Well said!!
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I'm due June 29th (a girl) & live in Australia
posted 21st Apr
I am a teacher in the Caribbean- Our school has 1st- 11th grade. So I hear teenagers talking everyday and let me say it's absolutly the worst thing I ever heard in my life and I wish they could understand how dumb they sound. But you need to learn when to say something and when to ignore it. Yes- trust me I would love to shove some of those girls heads in a book but it wouldn't help. Advice is only taken when it's asked for and wanted. If the girl wants to know about her dead beat boyfriend give her advice on that not her horrific spelling choices. The more you ridicule the more they will be rebellious and do it more to get on our nerves. Plus then they won't listen to the great adice we have for them.Let's remember that teenagers are "always right" and know much more then us about the "real world" [please note my sarcasm] But honestly if it bothers you that the youngins are typing likethey're Caps Lock buttonhas gone pyscotic and using pointless slang- don't read it.

Oh -us pregnant women can be fiesty can't we?
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I'm due November 7th & live in Honduras
posted 3 days ago
just wanted to say thanks because you always defend us ....and i know there are some VERY immature teen parents who come on here just to argue and act immature but i have met a handful of mature girls who i talk to and share my experience and questions with and it has helped me out ALOT ...
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I'm due November 27th & live in New York
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