Hey all after i read this peom both of them it brought tears to my eyes in the year of 2010 i had a miscarriage on my sister in laws birthday june 28th i was going on 3 months still to this day now that iam pregnant again i think god that he had blessed me with another baby i have 2 wanderful children now and one on the way ..but its still hard to get over the fact that i was that far along and now that june is only a month away all i want to do is lay around and cry about the loss of my baby ..my husband was there with me throught the whole thing how can i get over the simple fact of loosing a child that i could never hold or see or eaven read books to at night if there is anyone that has been through the same stuff that im gong through plz give me some advice on how to get over this stuff im pregnnat and all i do now is stress...
I can understand what it feels like and I DON'T TAKE LIGHTLY SAYING THAT. I don't like to say I understand, but I went through 3 miscarriages and 1 loss of a baby after he was born. I do not wish that any person. No one should have to feel that emptiness. I had my baby boy thinking ah he's early but he will be ok., Afterall we were in a hospital with a neo natal unit that was fantastic. 5 years earlier I had my daughter also pre-mature and she was fine. Little did I know God had other plans for us. I now have another Baby 6 years later, another boy @ 8 months.... but he is fine. he is now 1 year and 2 1/2 months old. My pregnancy was healthy, no complications and despite my age (43) I gave birth and felt great days after having the C section. Just remember this, God doesn't give us more than we can handle. At times it will seem that way, and seem unfair, you are healing and you will always have sad days, I still do.. but you are pregnant again and have to think about the little Angel god has given u to take care of. Think positive thoughts surround yourself with comforting soothing music. Find ways to distract yourself and before you know it you'll be bouncing your new littleone on your knees and feeling like a brand new sparkling penney!!