if you found out that your son had raped someone, how would u feel? would u disown him or forgive him? D & D

I wouldnt disown him, he would be afterall, my son, but I would not condone his behavior and would make sure he served his time in jail and did a lot of community service afterwards.

I would be devastated and I would wonder where I went wrong as a parent.

I would still love my child and I wouldn't disown him, but I would absolutely not support what he did and I'd be disappointed and sickened.

That's a toughie...being myself a rape survivor, I would KNOW what his victim went through...but at the same time...he's my son, my little baby!
I'll be pretty pissed at him if he ever does that to anyone but I really can't choose from the poll...just thinking about such a situation makes me cringe...and want to cry...

I don't know what I would do.  

Yeah if it was truely rape I would disown him and hate myself for being such a smurffy parent.

It would depend on the specifics.

Quoting suzy-freakin-wombat:“ I would be devastated and I would wonder where I went wrong as a parent. I would still love my child ... [snip!] ... love my child and I wouldn't disown him, but I would absolutely not support what he did and I'd be disappointed and sickened.”

  
I hope that would never happen though!

I guess I wouldn't know until I was in that situation....depends on the exact circumstances, etc. Disown is a pretty harsh thing. Would I stand by him and hire him the best attorney I could afford....Hell no! He'dhave to pay the consequences for his actions. Would I never speak to him again....I doubt that I'd do that either....I just don't really know.

I would neither forgive nor disown. I would be so crushed by his choice, but I would never stop loving him or cut him out of my life.

How about I wouldn't disown him but I wouldn't forgive him for a very long time.. and I think he would have to do his time...

Are we positive he raped her? Like she isn't crying wolf? I'd want to be absolutely positive he raped her.. not just she wished she hadn't after the fact.

yeah, im not sure what i'd do, i dont have a son, but if i ever did & this happend, i'd be truely upset & would probably fall out with him for some time, but eventually come around, bc at the end of the day, i will allways love my kids

I am shocked and slightly disturbed by the amount of women that would forgive their son for raping someone.

i would probably disown him if not kill him.
ESPECIALLY if he had raped a baby/kid.
there is no excuse for that.
i dont want to associate myself with any rapist..

Quoting Butt Slutt:“ I am shocked and slightly disturbed by the amount of women that would forgive their son for raping someone.”

Maybe due to the fact that you truly don't know what you would do until having faced it. It is hard to sit here and say you would disown your child.

Personally, I would be pleased to see him serve the time for committing the crime and hope that one day he is truly rehabilitated.